Has anyone ever just skipped out on their 6 week pp check up?š I know this is stupid but I'm just curious. This is my 2nd baby, vaginal birth, no complications, 2nd degree tear, but I feel great! Physically and emotionally. I have no pain at all, no more bleeding, and I'm almost 100% sure my stitches are dissolved. My ob/gyn is 30 min away from me, and I will have to take both my toddler and newborn with me when I go cause my partner will be at work and I don't want to spend more money on a nanny. And I feel like it's gonna be a quick appointment since I have no problems and I just feel like it'll be a waste of time. Like I know I should get checked out just to be safe but I just feel so good and completely back to normal I really don't want toš
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Preventative care is vital. Even if nothing comes of the appointment. I'm very much in support of preventative medicine and will always vote better safe than sorry, but I know there are people who don't trust/rely on their providers for that. Up to you at the end of the day, but I'd go.

I think its silly and irresponsible to not go. I don't know where you are from but where I live the 6 week appointment is also to check bubs as well as mum. I understand it may be alot of effort to do it all with a toddler as well but theirs a reason they get us to attend these appointments

I didnāt go to mine after my second either. I feel like I went to the one after my first but not sure. You could see if you could do a virtual visit instead.

What about 6w midwife check for baby? Health nurse or whatever. Ask her to check you? Coz our babies here get the immunisations at 6w at the health nurse I guess if I really wanted to I could ask her to check me, as thatās the time I had to fill in the sheet for PPD as well and they weighed baby and gave shots etc. wherever you are taking baby for the 6w checkup ask there? Iām not saying skip it Iām more saying hit 2 birds w one stone lol. Most people go Dr for 6w clearance also to talk about birth control

in the US by 6ish weeks, your baby has already been seen by their pediatrician 3-4 times for their mandatory appointments

Could it not be a phone call? I know in the UK they tend to just ask how you are feeling etc and if as you say are feeling great then I canāt see why a face to face appointment would be needed

I didnāt go to mine. I was so overwhelmed being a new mum, I just put it off and eventually forgot.

Itās very important, youād be insanely silly not to go! Itās for ur health

I think the 6week check is rubbish anyway, both of mine they never even asked me how I was,more concerned about what contraception I was going on

Personally I'm a worry wart, I'm very much in tune with my body but I always went just to be safe. But if you feel like you know your body pretty well and you're doing I fine I think its okay to skip it. (If you have stitches I'd probably go just to be sure it's healing properly but other than that meh š¤·š»āāļø) if you feel like you need to go in later then you can, NBD

In the UK I didnāt even get offered a 6 week check up, I finally got in to see a doctor at 10 weeks and they coincided it with my babies vaccines and was more about them than me, they didnāt even check my scar (csec)
I think worth calling the doctors and seeing if you can just have a call instead š¤·š¼āāļø

I went to mine the first time (UK) only because it was paired with my sons checkups. This time if it isnāt⦠I donāt think I will go. It was completely useless even though I had a c-section, they didnāt ask about the incision or asked to see it. All they did was try and pressure me into birth control, while at the same time telling me breastfeeding is a birth control š this pregnancy if my checks are separate from baby checks I wonāt go

Iād see if theyād do by phone, theyāve never even checked me afterwards, just do the regular questions & say we can skip the exam due to my answers, but I think my doctor still wanted to see me, probably to get a look at my color & physical appearance, but I know many doctors do the zoom type appointments now, so maybe thatās an option.

I went with my first and it was honestly a waist of time she asked if I was still hurting I said no they had me fill out these like ten questions to see if I had pp depression or something and then I went home unless I rip or something with this pregnancy one Iām not going

Height of covid for my 6 week check and I was examined, my blood pressure and urine tested for whatever they test it for.
Isn't it always better to be safe and get checked?

Iāve had 3 babies & every app has been completely pointless tbh itās just about how u r feeling & talk about contraception u r in there seconds if you have no concerns maybe ask for it to be done over the phone instead ??

I didnāt go and I was fine

They check mum and Baby. Go for baby's sake.
Iām thinking of getting one for my little girl but canāt decided if I should get it this Christmas/birthday or wait until next.
She will be 10 months at Christmas, will she get any use out of it this year?

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Being a woman does not mean you are fully capable of understanding all women nor does it grant you the right to invalidate another woman for choices you wont make.
Many times glares ive gotten are from older or younger women.
Generalization is a form of assumption which is in the ignorant family and when i read about it like calling out 'all men' gotta put into perspective that you aint talking bout my man.
Most unsolicited and absolute opinions ive heard are from women who feel like they know just because and its not true.
Im not a girls girl and i do not stand with turfs nor do i allow any women to speak over my life or my family without boundaries.
This app has lots of women who scratch the itch to vomit unsolicited, absolute & biased opinions just because they're a woman...feels good to get this off my brain much like how my block list could grow š¤£
Anyone else out there feel any of this?

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