Separated

Me and my babys dad decided to go on a break. But im not sure i want to get back with him. He is the reason why we even needed this break. He couldnt grow up and part of me hopes he changes during this break. And part of just wants to move on and focus on me and my baby

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Those are fair feelings. You’re allowed to do what will be best for you and your kiddo. It’s up to you. Sometimes things change and the kiddo comes first now so if you don’t wanna put focus elsewhere you are allowed to make that choice. Don’t feel guilty or obligated to make a choice in either direction. You are allowed to do what you think is right when the time comes. Hugs and encouragement from me no matter what. 🫂

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