Nap routine

At 7 months what’s everyone’s nap schedule, I feel like my little boy wants to drop that 3rd nap but can’t manage to up his wake window from others so he can. His first wake window is still 2hrs 15/30mins. And he does 11hrs at night so I’m not changing bed times

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My LB does 2-2.5 wake windows and has 3 naps a day then the last wake window is around 3 to 3.5 hours. He skipped his first nap yesterday and was cranky as hell for lack of sleeo. Also does 11 hour nights.

My boy wakes at 7:30/8am , nap from 10:30-12:30 , then next nap is usually 3:30/4-5:30pm, he also sleeps 11ish hours at night sometimes 12 so I’ll take two long naps rather than 3 short ones ! X

Wake up -7:30-8
Nap -10:00-10:30
Nap 1:30-3:30
Bedtime 7pm ISH

My son has one 1hour nap and then 20 mins for a second he sleeps 12hours in the night

Wake-9:00
Nap-1:00-2:00
Nap-5:00-5:20
Bedtime-9pm

We literally have dropped the 3rd nap 2 days ago. So he goes to bed at 7pm wake
Up at 7am (he’s does wakes up to feed at night sometimes once sometimes twice 😭) then he’ll be asleep just before 10am can sleep between 30 to 1h then 3h wake window and then he sleeps from 2pm till 4 and that’s it bath at 6:20 bed at 7 he’ll be 8 months in over a week

Wake - 6am
Nap - 9am - 9.30/10am
Nap - 1pm - 3pm
Bed - 7pm

He will have a 3rd nap at 4.30-5pm if he wakes from his afternoon nap at 2pm

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I’m four months in and I don’t really have hobbies right now. I don’t do anything for myself except maybe doomscrolling or listening to a podcast while I breastfeed my baby. I used to craft and have game nights with friends. Activities that usually are at least 2 hour stretches. Now if I have an hour free my mind immediately goes to baby, or doing something in the house for baby.

And I thought I didn’t mind. Like I knew postpartum could be very mentally consuming. But I think it’s altering how I view people around me and it’s prodding at my relationship with my husband.

He spends most of his time making food for us, looking after our dogs, playing with the baby, ect. But he still has time for his hobby. Spends maybe an hour a night on it. Even adapted to using a bot for shopping for his hobby after a certain incident where we had to have a heart to heart after he left me home alone with the baby for hours during a busy workday (I work from home) to shop for his hobby.

And yet there’s like this little green eyed monster in me that rages every time I know he’s running off to start up the bot. Even though I’m the reason he does it this way.

We took a family trip last weekend to see his best friend and their kids and let them meet the baby. He brought the laptop. He’s always brought a laptop on trips and it’s never been a problem to me before. But one night we both woke up while the baby was still asleep, and he wandered out of the room. I tried to fall back asleep but couldn’t. So I went to the kitchen to try having something warm to drink to settle me. And he was there at the table running the bot from his laptop. I flipped out at him. But there really wasn’t reason to. It’s not like I needed help with the baby and he was ignoring me. He wasn’t avoiding our friends. He was just awake and unable to sleep and found something to do with his time. Yet my snap reaction was “why the hell would you do this on a family trip?”

I don’t know what it is. Maybe it’s the less complete sleep from baby’s middle of the night feed? My brain being just consumed by baby? Maybe I’m not as over that shopping incident as I thought? But I’m just so annoyed at his hobby right now. The green eyed monster thinks “you could be using that time differently” but realistically to do what exactly??? Stare at our baby in the dark???

I spent probably an hour apologizing to him after I snapped. And he’s of course hurt and frustrated because I said some very mean things in the moment.

I don’t want to be this jealous, angry person. But I also don’t know how to find time for myself in this right now outside of basic hygiene. It’s like I’ve forgotten how to be myself, even if just for an hour.

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