What do you want for Christmas?

I've been asked this question and have no idea what to get. This is also my first Christmas where a man actually cares to ask what I want. I should tell him I want a ring. Chill jkjk. What's on your Christmas list? He's already buying winter apparel so that can't be on my list.

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I ask for art, jewelry, and clay!

Spa Day hair mani pedi facial the works

I’d love vouchers for a massage or facial etc

We’re just doing stockings this year but my bday was in Oct and I asked for scented Xmas cuticle pens and Xmas Yankee candle. I do want stuff for my feet and diamond art. I’m more for experiences though and less stuff!

My Christmas present for last year I got in April...I gave birth in February so he got me a couple of massage treatments that I could go and enjoy post partum (it was what I'd asked for as I really missed it during pregnancy)...not sure if you are pregnant or post partum, but maybe something nice you can do to relax alone or together (spa, beauty treatment etc). Or a day out somewhere (theatre etc).

Maybe a bracelet . I want a couple household items tho and my safe options are fuzzy socks and bath bombs .

Think about stuff you actually need or that would make you happy.

My iPad is shitting the bed so hubby is getting me a new one with a Black Friday deal today! If I think of more stuff I’ll tell him but that’s good for me for now 😊

I've asked for Bluetooth headphones, wellies for the school run, perfume and then I'll usually get a few surprises

Every year I get stuff like makeup candles essential oils handbags sunnies nail stuff. (From my KK) It’s usually my bday or Mother’s Day he gets me an $$ present but for Xmas it’s just small stuff

I wanted the cecred hair line for shampoo, container, oil, and hair lotion ahaha

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Has anyone else had issues with their friends that aren't pregnant or have kids?

I have a friend at work and we've become really close over the years. But ever since I become pregnant she just doesn't understand anything I'm going through which is fine except for the fact that the past few days I have been exhausted physically and socially. We have been helping another friend out for about a month now and we've had to keep him entertained as he's going through a rough time right now and it's drained me socially . my friend at work is frustrated because I'm not talking a lot and I'm exhausted and she doesn't understand why and I'm just curious if anybody else has had issues with friends that are not going to the same thing or have gone through the same thing as you connecting with you because she's literally mad at me. She stopped talking to me at work today and I just don't understand what to do.

Spicy chat

Anyone up for a spicy chat, I’m horny

Friends

I’ve been on this app for almost 5 years now I still can’t find one friend. I just need a friend. I’m so fucking lonely.

STD rates and body count

Saw an interesting video and I’d love to hear everyone’s thoughts on this topic!

So std rates are at an all time high as we all know. Do you think the mindset that body count doesn’t matter has contributed to the significant increase of STDs and HIV?

Secondly if someone says that body count doesn’t matter do you believe they are less likely to practice safe sex compared to people who believe in more traditional values?

I can’t put all the combinations in the poll so feel free to comment just yes/no answers

(If you’re going to reply please keep your responses respectful and polite.)

What happened to Zainab

Hey guys haven’t been on here in a sec! Just come to realise I haven’t seen any posts / comments from Zainab (I’m sure that’s her name 🫠) hoping she is ok , I’m sure she was a Mod but can’t seem to find her anymore 🤔

If your partner got a prostitute pregnant and then abandoned the child/ran away, what would be your response? Read…

So you were not in a relationship at the time or were about to be in a relationship, he gets the prostitute pregnant.
It’s her fault for not taking their morning after pill.
He tells her straight up that he’s not going to be involved and that she should terminate it.
She says that she won’t terminate and she hopes that he does stick around

So she deliberately gets pregnant, basically traps him

What would be your reaction?
he’s response is:
“She trapped me and it’s her fault for not taking the pill”