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Am i wrong for deciding to cut off visits with my child’s father he went MIA for 3 months didn’t even reach out for his 1st birthday and he recently reached out and said he wanted to be a part of his child’s life I worked out a schedule with him to see him 2 days a week for 3 hours at my house it’s been about 3 weeks of visits so far and he hasn’t showed up for one visit a week because it “slipped his mind” to put on his calendar or “ it’s been chaos in his life” there has been days where I had to change the scheduled day but I let him know a week in advance of the change he’s been inconsistent in our son‘s life since I first found out I was pregnant. He goes MIA for 3 to 4 months and then comes back around and says he wants to be a part of his son’s life, but he’s never consistent because he says he has so much going on in his life. Am I in the wrong for choosing to go no contact and stopping visits because he is still showing that he is not going to be consistent and I am more than accommodating for him. Like leaving work because i work from home picking my son up from daycare so he can have visits with his dad.