What would you have done?

I took my son to the toilet in a coffee shop and was standing propping the cubicle open whilst he went. This woman said I think my phones in there so I said ok my son’s just doing the toilet but he’ll be out in a minute. She tried to move me out of the way and open the door. I got so angry and said don’t you dare try and go in there whilst my son’s naked and doing the toilet! She seemed to think I was being over dramatic. Surely I’m not the only person who thinks that’s not ok?

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That is not ok. Why would she even think that’s ok. Thats a child in a vulnerable position. Would she have tried that with an adult- no so why is a child any different

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No, that's definitely not OK, but maybe you could have handled it better? She tried to get past you after you said he won't be long. Just say excuse me again , you can get it in a moment.
My son is only 4, though. i still go in cubicle with him and lock the door .... X

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No that's not okay. If some mom was like wait until my kiddo is done, I'd absolutely be understanding. People are so damn weird.

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I would have had the same reaction as you, but it wouldn’t have gotten that far because I would have just quickly grabbed the phone for her. She probably panicked her phone is in a stall with a child that could pick it up and drop it in the toilet.

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Like Alyson said, she prob panicked. I do understand you and I appologise. I would be upset top. Anger just gets us nowhere in this world. You were there to protect him x

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