Swaddle options for baby with strong startle reflex?

We’re going to be transitioning two month old baby to the bassinet, soon. His Moro reflex is so strong, it wakes him up. He hates being swaddled with a blanket (he fights out of it), so we’re looking for advice/options for arms up swaddles that enable them to sleep through the twitches (lol). I’ve heard of the Love to Dream swaddle- does it really work?

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Yes. At least for my two kids. My daughter started sleeping so much better when we started using it. I never even swaddled my son (he’s my October baby) and we just used the love to dream at the hospital. I highly recommend.

Yes it's great! We used it with my first and now with the second too. Second baby definitely has a stronger startle reflex than my first did

When my baby started rolling, we switched to transitional swaddles. I like swaddle designs on Amazon. You can cuff the hands for more restrictive or let them hands out. I feed him in the swaddle at night. Why annoy him more?

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