MESSAGE FROM MY BABYDADDY LOL.. Who must think he is still entitled to my body and can sleep with me whenever?? idk but he is very aware i am seeing someone else.. who i really like and my new dude really likes me..

I really don't plan on sleeping with him at all... apart of me feel guilty for even responding to this non sense in the first place. So I'm lost for words like idk what to say !

The OLD ME would've invited him over like it was nothing.. that's how i know i am fully healed or healing and over him.. and he is coming back to do what?? confuse me and have me start all over again.. yeahh noooo

I would honeslty just cut contact unless it is about the child. No need to even blur the lines being that you see what he is about.

You feeding into it thats why he keeps disrespecting boundaries. The "idk yet so I cant give you an answer " is very telling. The answer should have been NO or no response from the jump.
If its not pertaining the child you shouldn't even be entertaining the mere thought of him being able to still fuck you 💯💯

If you like the man you’re talking to now, have enough respect for him (& yourself) to set a firm boundary with your BD. The answer should’ve been a straight up “no, don’t ask me no dumb shit like that. We have a child together, ask me about that instead”

Just cut contact unless it has to do with the child, it’s a very simple task. He just wants to see if the door is still open and you keep entertaining him so the cycle never ends. If what you say is true, that you found someone you really like, ignoring him after setting that boundary shouldn’t be an issue…unless you like doing this dance with him

He needs to worry about a consistent job and taking care of his child instead of sex. That last message he sent would have sent me over the edge. He sounds crazy!

Girllll … you letting him have a hold over you and he feels entitled to have your body and use you for sex. No no no!!!

girlie, he literally told you he ain’t shit & to just say no.

He literally can’t get it from anybody else so he’s tryna see if old doors are still open.

You are entertaining him and his bulshit. If you are not with him and have someone new that you really like why are you even responding unless it’s about y’all’s child/children. The answer should have been straight up no. He’s a narcissist and this is his little game. Stop playing his game! Go enjoy your new man and leave BS alone before you loss him because of that man.

Your post and what you’re texting back does not align. Your response sounds like you still have feelings for him and I feel sorry for your new guy. You telling your bd ‘idk yet your gna confuse me all over again’ is keeping the door open allowing him to disrespect you and your relationship.

Just the way he writes is a huge turn off. Who talks like that.... he sounds like a bum. I would not entertain this what so ever.

Typed my message and started scrolling through everyone else’s and many are similar. You are giving him way too much power by responding to that and disrespecting your new partner. Its a complete breach of trust. You need to have clear boundaries & stand firm on them. You are disrespecting your current partner for someone that doesn’t seem to have respect for you and your relationship. Imagine dating someone with a BM & them having these types of convos with them. Super inappropriate 😩 I would stay single & heal and only allow a new person in once you have fully moved on.

You are also saying that you feel “in your spirit” that its wrong for him to text you these things but you don’t feel that its wrong for you to entertain it??? He seems like the type of man that does not want you but wants to know that he still has a hold on you and can come in and out without actually changing or offering any sort of healthy relationship or stability. Seems like he needs to grow up and find focus on finding a stable job & coparenting.

Your BD literally just asked you if he can drop off some dick (😂😂) yes or no, and you said ‘I don’t know’. Baby girl you are not healed, don’t live in delusion! 🤣🤣

To actually heal would be to de-centre men entirely and focus on getting your mental health right, your money and education up and levelling up as a mother for your child.

All you’ve done here is gone out and got a fuck buddy which has in turn made your BD want to reassert dominance. He’s even said if you really were in a relationship with the other guy your answer would have been no with zero confusion. Even your BD is calling you out on your bullshit lol.

Come on girl, you can do better than this.

Respectfully, youre equal to blame here. Youre not telling him no. So youre confusing yourself. Dont complain about him when youre clearly leading him on. It seems like youre the one thats in a relationship having this type of conversation AND entertaining it is crazy work. Females love to throw rocks and hide their hands when the glass shatters. Smh

Baby daddies piss me off I’m sorry mama I got two of em

Cut him off and don’t tolerate that behaviour you deserve better.

If it ain’t bout the kid don’t say shit to him

Looks like you still wanna be with him!!

Wtf.. is this even English???? Lmao 🤣 I wouldve blocked him the instant he started talking to me this way. No well in hell