Only fans ruined my How I view my husband

I don’t talk about this much, but my entire view of my husband changed when I found out he was subscribing to OnlyFans while I was six months pregnant especially to women who are the complete opposite of me.
I’m a year postpartum now, and I’m still trying to make sense of how that moment altered the way I see him, myself, and our relationship. I almost see him as a lesser man.. I don’t believe when he calls be pretty or anything he says about me…

Anyone else have this issue.. 😞

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I could never. Personally that’s a deal breaker for me.
Have you talked to him about it? Keeping it in could result in it festering badly.

That’s a huge problem, have u maybe thought of couples therapy and even therapy for yourself !? If u can’t look at
Him the same u need to ask yourself
Is this the kind of relationship u want for yourself and your family. U both deserve to be happy.

You're not making sense of it. You're denying what you feel. If you feel its cheating, he cheated. If its sexual or emotional energy that should be reserved for your spouse, then of course its going to make the other person more than upset. Unless you both had this in your lives prior with no issues, if he kept secrets about it, its cheating.

I’m so sorry that happened.. you’re valid in however you feel

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