Orgasms

So.. I’ve found that I can only have an orgasm if I use a toy ? Me and my partner have amazing sex I enjoy how he’s learned my body but I have never had an orgasm from him just penetrating alone ? I’m starting to feel like something is wrong with me as this has never happened before with previous partners ?

Any advice on how to achieve an orgasm without a toy

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A LOT of women can’t orgasm with penetration with just a penis alone! You are completely normal! A lot of women need toys while having sex with their men! But I will say some men it can be dependent on size.. first man I was with could do it but looking back it was probably cuz he was big enough to hit a certain spot near my cervix… while another ex… he could never hit that spot cuz he was a little guy lol… but he was an eater at least.😂😂 granted I’m a lesbian now soooo I can also see why I struggled with orgasms with men 😂😂😂

That’s definitely how I am! I’ve heard it’s normal but I think it’s weird how some people don’t feel it and other do. I have times where it feels good but not like with a toy

Your body can change and what was once possible can stop being possiblem all that to say is that for a lot of folks its not possible to have purely penetration based orgasms

This is so personal but what positions have yall tried? Could try different position more spicier position iyk?

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