Am I the problem?

I feel like no matter how hard I try to make friends. I talk to someone for a few days and then just stop getting a response. Is it me or the app?

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It’s not just you. I’ve come to realize that a lot of women looking for friends just want surface level friendships…I’ve been struggling making decent connections on here too

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Im having the same issue too 🤦‍♀️

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I'm having that issue too. I don't get it because the conversations seem to be going really well and then they disappear.

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You know you can talk to me

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Here to talk. If I'm in the same area as other moms, I have had the same problem of trying to get interest of getting together.
I am even the mod for a local group on here....no one talks. Its pretty sad.

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I’ve experienced the same! It’s not you. People just don’t put much into making real conversation.

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hi randi me too, been on the app a week or so and most conversations become polite brush offs, its really disheartening! I was reli hoping to find some kind of soul sister connections! x x x

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Definitely not you; sometimes it happens that people prefer face-to-face meetings. Conversations through messages can feel superficial, making it hard to know what to say. Life often gets busy, especially when returning to work. I usually respond to my messages, but there have been a couple of occasions where I forgot to reply, only realizing a month later—and by then, it was too late.

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Girl you are not alone!

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I have the same issue 😫

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Am here for anyone who wants to be real friends and have nice conversations

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I feel the same way!
Or they almost pretend to hit it off and then just ghost.
No better than a man 🤣🤣🤣

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I think it is the nature of the people on here. This app is for pregnant women and moms so a lot can happen. They can get busy with life, go into labor, have a child get sick, go back to work, etc. Also, I've noticed recently that my phone has auto disabled apps without my approval

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Has anyone else had issues with their friends that aren't pregnant or have kids?

I have a friend at work and we've become really close over the years. But ever since I become pregnant she just doesn't understand anything I'm going through which is fine except for the fact that the past few days I have been exhausted physically and socially. We have been helping another friend out for about a month now and we've had to keep him entertained as he's going through a rough time right now and it's drained me socially . my friend at work is frustrated because I'm not talking a lot and I'm exhausted and she doesn't understand why and I'm just curious if anybody else has had issues with friends that are not going to the same thing or have gone through the same thing as you connecting with you because she's literally mad at me. She stopped talking to me at work today and I just don't understand what to do.

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Spicy chat

Anyone up for a spicy chat, I’m horny

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Friends

I’ve been on this app for almost 5 years now I still can’t find one friend. I just need a friend. I’m so fucking lonely.

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STD rates and body count

Saw an interesting video and I’d love to hear everyone’s thoughts on this topic!

So std rates are at an all time high as we all know. Do you think the mindset that body count doesn’t matter has contributed to the significant increase of STDs and HIV?

Secondly if someone says that body count doesn’t matter do you believe they are less likely to practice safe sex compared to people who believe in more traditional values?

I can’t put all the combinations in the poll so feel free to comment just yes/no answers

(If you’re going to reply please keep your responses respectful and polite.)

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What happened to Zainab

Hey guys haven’t been on here in a sec! Just come to realise I haven’t seen any posts / comments from Zainab (I’m sure that’s her name 🫠) hoping she is ok , I’m sure she was a Mod but can’t seem to find her anymore 🤔

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Any moms in the DMV area?

Hey! 💕 I want to start a group chat or something so we can all connect.

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