Husband just got annoyed at me..

Honestly if you don’t breastfeed, on a weekend of whenever your husband isn’t working, give him baby and go out for a few hours, just do whatever you want to do. Im petty though, so maybe don’t take my advice.
But in all honesty your husband is not being fair.

To put it in perspective, my husband is a lorry driver, 12-14 hr shifts, obv he needs to be rested to be able to work. Regardless of that, when I had my second who was as terrible sleeper as my first, he would help me in the night if she needed changing or had a particularly bad night, or would take her in the morning so I could have 1-2 extra hrs. Or when the toddler decided she was scared to sleep by herself he bought himself an inflatable mattress and slept with her for a few months, through constant wake ups and kicks in the face. He done that because he’s an equal partner in pretty much everything we do.

I was really struggling with nights especially on the nights where my lo wouldn't just settle for milk. Now I must say my partner wasn't upset that she was crying and he had work but he did just look and then try and go back to sleep. I was exhausted and seeing him sleep on while I was struggling pissed me off. He needs a good sleep to be a productive and good worker yes but I also need a good sleep to be a productive and good mother. I started waking him and saying your turn. Initially it didn't work and he'd just go back to sleep so I started putting the baby on the bed, waking him telling him it was his turn and then I'd leave the room for a few min. (Baby couldn't roll.) This would force him to have to deal with it because she was crying right next to him. I'd then come back in and go back to sleep (or try to!) while he was sorting her out.