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How long are your little ones napping and what time do they go to bed?x

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2/3 hours per day & bed time between 7/8pm x

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My daughter sleeps 11:30-2:30 and is in bed for 7 and asleep by about 7:30 - wakes at 7:30am x

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Would be interesting to see people’s wake windows. My LG won’t nap until she’s been up for approx 6 hours. So generally only has an hours nap, shorter if nap is later.
Up at 8 and bed for 9 on a good day.

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1 hour nap 12.30-1.30 and bed 8/8.15-7 (we wake her at 7) xx

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Nap is normally 1.5 hours, but we now cap at 2 hours max otherwise bedtime takes too long. Bedtime about 8pm, up about 7am.

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1-1.5hr we cap it at that. Bedtime between 8-9 as I work nights and drop off at my mums house etc . Wake up always 8am latest because if we have too long a nap it really affects bedtime. Half the time she doesn’t nap but still doesn’t go down early 🫣

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My girl barely naps
If she does 3-4 hours
She goes to bed 10-11pm
If no nap her bed is 7:30pm but she rarely naps so

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1-1.5hrs between 12 and 2pm, at the moment she’s pushing nap till 1pm though so woken at 2pm or bedtime would be tough.
Asleep by 8:30pm usually and up between 7 and 7:30am usually.
We bedshare in a big family floorbed with feeds in the night also.

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30 minute nap, if needed and then asleep by 7pm and up just after 7am 😊

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Up at 7 currently , asleep between 12:10-12:30 until 1:30/2pm . Bedtime 7-7:30pm .

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I have to wake my daughter up so that she will definitely sleep at night. She wakes in the morning anywhere between 6-8am (I’m on mat leave so appreciate the lie in) at nursery she will sleep 1-2pm, at home she can go to sleep anywhere between 1-2pm but I make sure to wake her by 2.50pm because she doesn’t fall asleep till 8.30 on a good day, later than 9pm and I’m screwed not being able to get tidy😂 she needs 6/7 hours wake windows

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Usually an hour nap, sometimes 1 hour 30. Bed for 8pm and at the mo he's waking at 6am 😖

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Wake at 6 nap at 11:45 for nearly 2 hours then bed at 7:30 but his going into the next room at nursery soon and they don’t nap

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We are going through our second no naps phase, fun fun. But usually sleeps 9pm - 7pm with a 1 hour nap at around 1pm.

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Wake up between 6.30-7am, nap 30 mins, bed at 8pm

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1 hour nap, 7:30 bedtime

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