My little one is hardly eating enough to keep a sparrow alive at the moment. There’s hardly anything he’ll eat and he’s now rapidly going off the things that I could always guarantee he would eat. He will generally eat cereal, but sometimes refuses. He’ll eat crisps, chocolate and yogurt. He will normally eat fish fingers/chicken dippers, chips/potato shapes and peas/sweetcorn. Tonight he’s eaten a few peas and bits of potato and that’s it. Despite him not having any lunch as he wouldn’t eat anything I gave him. He had half a bowl of cereal for breakfast. He won’t try anything new. He normally loves biscuits but today he’s taken one bite of a biscuit and just pushed it away, shaking his head. He also barely drinks anything because he refuses water, squash and milk. I just don’t know what to do anymore and I’m starting to get really stressed about it. I also have a 3 year old who is fussy and won’t try new things but eats enough varied things that I don’t need to worry about her. Is this something I should speak to the doctor about? Or health visitor? I just don’t know what to do anymore.
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I literally could have written this myself!! My little girl is the exact same at the moment. I actually called my HV this afternoon as her appetite has always been amazing and the last 3 days she's just been picking at things she didn't seem overly concerned said it could maybe be her big molars coming in or something's maybe starting to work on her or she's getting over something. She said to just keep offering snacks little and often. Hope this helps ❤️

Is your little one poorly atm?
Even a little cold can put them right off their food.
If no, I would suggest trying something a bit different. If you try to make him eat in a hugh chair/at the table maybe try to go picnic style... my daughter went on a bit of a hunger strike and i was able to get her to eat a few things by relieving the pressure from the high chair.
I would also try as best you can to make it fun.. maybe if Daddy can help, have some food, pretend go and feed him and then eat if yourself. If he acts shocked and everyone finds it funny you may get him playing the game and eating without really thinking about it.
My last resort is what i call 'zombie eating' when she refuses. I stick her favourite TV show on and feed her... as soon as she stops eating it goes off. I know thats not in any parenting books but, sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do.
I found with my daughter after a month or so of doing crazy things to get her to eat, her appetite increased. She eats well atm! Xx

Either way, a little trip to the doctors may be a good idea, hopefully they can reassure you or offer some better guidance than us! Xx

Are you still breastfeeding? If so, he's probably getting everything he needs from your milk, so no need to worry. It's probably a phase that will pass - the same thing happened to us and our little girl came back to the foods she enjoyed after a few months.
Any recommendations would be great, going down to Cornwall for a couple of days and would like the option of staying at Grandparents etc

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I need help please! I am overwhelmed and sad. I am currently 17weeks pregnant with my second child amd my Son is 3 years and 10months old. He goes to nursery 3 days a week and over the past 6 months, he was said to have been exhibiting challenging behaviours such as hitting people, scratching and screaming when he is upset at nursery. He is different at home but when he's upset, he just cries at home. In nursery, he refuses to share toys or anything and hits at the slightest provocation. No one hits hum at hime so I don't know why he has developed such behaviours all of a sudden. His nursery manager has made us reduce his hours to 2 hrs 30 mins per day which is so tight for me as I work full time. I have tried talking to him, teaching him about safe hands and setting boundaries but nothing at all had changed, i don't know what else to do at this point. His dad (my husband) works far away and comes over the weekend, so there's only little that i can do. I need help please, any suggestions is welcomed.
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Anyone encountered something in nursery that required some form of feedback or complain?
from what I’m reading, nurseries are supposed to meet individual baby needs and not make them follow nursery schedule.
But most time they said they tried, but never did and make baby follow their own time due to lack of staff.
For example when they r supposed to put baby to sleep or feed milk, they say they can’t (and tried) but in actual fact they have not tried. Inconsistent updates from different nursery staff as well.
I’m worried. If basic updates are inconsistent even. How are we even gonna be at ease when we send our babies there?
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Has anyone got any suggestions of activities to do whilst on maternity leave?
We do swimming once a week and try to go to a play group as well as going for walks.
My LO is 8.5 months old and I’m getting fed up of being in the house as much as we are, so I’m sure my daughter is too!
We’re in Worcestershire area so any ideas/recommendations would be much appreciated 😊
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I felt like my boyfriend was hiding something (again) and I checked his phone, I found lots of porn websites in his search history. I feel like shit, I feel like I’m not enough to anyone. He was never like this and I had a higher sex drive all of a sudden he needs more..
we’ve split up before and he said he started watching it then.. I’m 3 weeks postpartum and we’ve been intimate since and it breaks my heart knowing I’m not enough even tho I made sure his needs are met. I swear any other man would appreciate it, and I do take care of myself so why can’t I just be good enough? Everyone says he’s punching and I could definitely do much better than him, but I just wanted to work things out with him so much no one else mattered to me ever. How do I cope with this?
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My husband works and I’m a SAHM, and he was working from home today. Our 2-year-old was whinging and didn’t want to go out, even though I asked her so many times. So she was playing in the living room, and obviously it was a mess, toys all over the floor and some papers because she was drawing.
Then my husband came in and started telling our daughter off for whinging and telling her to be nice to me. He was also complaining about the living room being messy. Like, really?! We have a toddler! What is that attitude?!
I’m honestly so annoyed. And I was cooking while my toddler was playing, btw, and now I’m not even going to cook anymore.
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