Idk what to do

My boyfriend ended things because I’m pregnant mind you he been saying he wanted a baby and the fact that there is one now he’s all like it’s too soon & to get a pill we’ll try in a year. I’m 8 weeks now & I don’t want to abort my baby, I’ve had an abortion before and a miscarriage I dnt want to go through any of this again cus if so I do plan to burn my tubes. He’s over reacting to the point you’d think he’s the baby mama that’s getting left to take care of a kid alone.

We both work & this is both our 2nd kid. To want a baby and switch up once u find out there’s a baby is making me want to cry (I haven’t) because this feels like repeat of my first pregnancy

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Damn I’m sorry this is such a difficult situation. It seems like u guys are having serious issues so just be prepared for the worse meaning being a single mother with 2 kids.

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I'm sorry mama🫶🏼stay strong

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Make the decision for yourself and your existing child, not for him. He hasn't had your back with this and you'll regret making a choice to please him. Make sure you are prepared for the reality of raising them on your own if you choose to, as this sounds likely. He probably won't stick around either way, he's already shown he's flakey, Make your choice without him.

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Let him go girl if he wants to leave because he doesn’t want to man up and take care of his baby that’s on him because in the end he will still have to pay child support ect. You as mama can get on government assistance such as snap and WIC, Don’t let a man try and sway you into getting another abortion if you don’t want it, this is your baby to protect and love, I had a similar but not similar experience that has truly taught me but my ex who was super super toxic and abusive (like actually abusive) told me if I ever got pregnant I would HAVE to abort because baby’s ruin your life and I’d be ruining his life and his chance in college and he would leave me if I didn’t abort and Yk at the time I listened because of the mental abuse that came with it but now… it irks me why I ever allowed a man to tell me something like that if it’s something I truly didn’t want..

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Im sorry to hear about him being unsupportive. He sounds scared and nervous. I think with time he will man up and show support. Your baby’s going to be awesome!

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