Question/ advice

I’m currently in a newish relationship after being married for 10 years. The guy I’m with is amazing and completely different from what I’m use to. The issue I have, I feel empty inside he knows about this and he’s willing to stick around and do what he can to help but I feel so bad to the point of wanting to end things with him. Growing up I never had love shown nor in the two relationships I’ve been in (this is my third relationship ever) I’m trying so hard but everything I’ve done I don’t get that “in love” feeling not even happiness… I’m just their 🤷🏻‍♀️. The reason I want to end things is because I don’t want it to get too deep into the relationship and I end up hurting him, I also don’t want to waste his time but I also don’t want to leave because he’s everything I’ve wanted in a partner. I’m pretty sure depression is in the picture but I don’t feel depressed per say. I dont know… I separated from my ex a year ago and I can say I 100% DONT want him back..

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Damn this is great. 👍 ur doing the right thing. This is how people should move. Be up front and tell him and do what’s right which is to leave him if u don’t feel it’s right.

So many people make the mistake of staying too long and even getting even more serious having kids.

Something ahout the situation is wrong…. and your women intuition is telling you no. So many women have bypassed that “no” and have paid a hefty price later on down the line. Cut it off… seek healing… and allow God to bring you the right spouse in the right season and you will have a sense of inner peace. Some red flags we do not understand…: but red… always means stop.

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