Fourth birthday present ideas

I have no idea what to get my son for his fourth birthday! He got a bigger bike and a bigger scooter from the grandparents either side at Christmas.He has tons of toys and car related things I do not want to get him the same kind of things.I want to get him things that he can still play with as he gets older,any suggestions?

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It’s my daughter’s 4th birthday today and one of her presents was a trampoline which she absolutely loves

Marble run? Lego? My daughter really likes her brake dancing remote control unicorn car, they do a spiderman version if that's too girly for him

We're having the same problem.
My little boy had a marble run for Christmas and that's a big hit. And he also loves his playmobil. I've asked people for 4+ lego sets, craft kids and 'science' kits for his birthday so far.
I try and stick to want, need, wear, read, do - so he wants a play mobil ambulance, we started a tradition of buying one of the day anthology of... books (they are beautiful), new swim wear and a board game/craft kit. Its the 'need' I'm struggling with 😂

We’ve got new tonies , a new paw patrol he’s asked for, and a dino explorer dressing up. not much else because I’m just as blank! Thing is he doesn’t actually ‘need’ anything!

My son has got a foam pogo stick!
Hes glt magnetic blocks from Minecraft.
And a huge dartboard with balls for his bedroom (my dad has one and he wanted one)
And a remote car
And spongebob things

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I just found out im pregnat with my partner again

I have other kids that arent his

Is it wierd he says to me he always need to have the weekend at his house with his kids because he needs a break from my other kids, but he tells me he wants to be with me forever and stuff but says he needs a break am i just overreacting

Screen-Free

Any other moms doing no screens? How do you get anything done or deal with the crying?? I feel like I never get a moment for myself or to even do things that need to be done like cleaning or cooking. My baby loves to be held all day but hates carriers. No judgement please! We are trying to do no screens for the first two years. Sometimes I have to just let him cry for a bit while I do something for myself and it feels awful. And let's not even get into the screaming in the car...I don't know if it's true and I feel kinda bad for saying this but I feel like screen-free parents just deal with a lot more crying 😞

Curious about the screen time epidemic

Tell me what your family does

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Nursery and eating off the floor

My boy starts nursery next week at 12m. He loves to practice his pincer grip. He loves to practice eating. We just went for nursery taster and he spent the time outside trying to eat sticks and dried leaves. We stopped him but i was worried the nursery staff were too busy with the sick kids to notice.

Editing to add - there were alot of staff outside though and it wouldve been harder to be faster than us at stopping him eat things as we were both watching like hawks. They say they have 1:3 ratio of staff and that they would notice.

I'm really worried he will choke on something he shouldn't be eating but he LOVED being outside.

My partner suggested we ask he be kept inside until this phase has passed...is that too much?

Being too sensitive?

I wanted people’s opinions on this and wondering if anyone else is in a similar situation! My husband is being super sensitive over friends and families opinions on who our new born baby daughter looks like. I think it’s ridiculous we are even bickering over this and having heated conversations. A lot of people have said she looks like her dad but some are saying she looks like me and just because he can’t see it, he gets annoyed with them for thinking it. I had a friend that came round to meet her and she said “she’s 100% ALL you” (me), he found this rude and disrespectful. I don’t think it is at all! Everyone sees babies differently and everyone has an opinion. I for sure don’t get upset if someone says baby girl looks like her daddy. It takes 2 to make a baby and she is gorgeous so it doesn’t matter, I’m the one that grew and birthed her but I don’t take offence! We then had a deep conversation and he opened up to me and said because he didn’t have much growing up as a child, he just would have loved our baby to look like him and to carry his features, considering she’s his biggest achievement. He’s convinced all MY friends and family just want her to look so badly like me and not him. (He’s very good looking may I add). I just get anxious every time someone comes round now as I don’t know what they will say regarding who she looks like! This is something I cannot control. He should be proud she’s gorgeous, happy and healthy. What are your opinions on this?!