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I just found out im pregnat with my partner again

I have other kids that arent his

Is it wierd he says to me he always need to have the weekend at his house with his kids because he needs a break from my other kids, but he tells me he wants to be with me forever and stuff but says he needs a break am i just overreacting

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He’s overreacting he clearly needs to grow up. He either wants to be a father or he doesn’t and the only one he’s hurting is your children and you’re allowing it respectfully not throwing any shade but at the end of the day it is your job to keep your children safe and if you feel something in your stomach, then it’s time to go never put your children’s second

I have stood up and told him how i felt but doesnt do do anything.. tells me im being controlling

I feel like he’s definitely overreacting, not you love! He needs to grow a pair and do his duties as a partner and father, PERIOD!!

His kids as in yours together or his kids as in, his kids?

I mean either way he is being a dick. If the former I would dump his pathetic arse and if the latter I would have a conversation and lay out boundaries. If he can't except them, end the relationship.

Personally, I would have done this when this first started happening.

All flags go up and intuition needs too awaken.... Mabey pop up on a weekend *forgetting* something..... And see if he's playing house with someone..... Or if he genuinely wants alone time with the kids #NannyCam

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I just found out im pregnat with my partner again

I have other kids that arent his

Is it wierd he says to me he always need to have the weekend at his house with his kids because he needs a break from my other kids, but he tells me he wants to be with me forever and stuff but says he needs a break am i just overreacting

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