Defeated

I am tired, exhausted, frustrated, lonely and lost. My now 15 month old used to be a wonderful sleeper. But the last 3 weeks have been brutal. Fighting naps. If she naps she will do so for 30minutes. Wakes up and refuses to sleep. Cries every time shes set down in her crib. We had used the Ferber method to sleep train and she was doing wonderful. But a switch has flipped and she has regressed so bad. She cries so hard she throws up. Then I have to clean up in the middle of the night and the struggle begins again. Last night she slept from 11:30pm to 6 am. I have another toddler so this is getting a lot for me. Im so drained. My day is surrounded around her and trying to get her to nap. It’s gotten so bad I don’t even leave the house. I feel so isolated and trapped.

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Hi lovely! Sleep coach here. (I don’t use any sleep training methods!)

What is her day schedule?

What time does she wake up,? What time are her naps? One or two naps?

What time is bed?

Message me on @bondedtosleep on Instagram if you need more help x

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