Custody

i guess i just need some advice
i’ve been with this guy for 2 years now
we have a 6 month old son together he do have a 3 year old son that i have full custody of .
for reasons regarding not agreeing on how i want to raise my son (6 month old) religion wise etc and other things he wants to take me to court so that someone can give him feel like he’s right in wanting to do whatever he wants with my son to, mind you when i got pregnant he told me he wanted me to have an abortion .. i had a horrible pregnancy with him , he’s a international student with a work permit, i think he only has a year left here if he doesn’t get his PR … and he’s just overall threatening me to take me to court so he can take him and do whatever he wants to do with him . Mind you my son is exclusively BF and has lived with me and my family since the day he was born , this man lives in horrible room of what looks like an abandoned house, only works uber , his mother messaged me saying that if i don’t want to marry her son and live with him that she grants him permission to go back to india to get married to the girl on their choice, that if im unable to raise my son to give it to her that she will give him a better life… i was fuming! to say the least.
i just need some advice what do you guys think i should do,,, i also did not expect this to happen to me and i feel like ill be judged for going to fight custody once again for another son of mine..

thoughts?

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Quick rundown had my baby 3 months ago her dad was cheating on me all the way through pregnancy u til 2 months pp . I was depressed and sad along with pnd ! I allowed him to leave my house sleep about and come back I had no fight left in me I was broken emotionless didn’t want to be here . Fact forward to a few days after valentines day a male friend brought me flowers ex didn’t like it called me all the names ect but 4 days later begging me back I tried for our daughter but he’s put his hands on me twice in the month daily name calling body shaming
Then today we was out his friend rang him why we was in the car to say he has 2 girls for them to go link this was on loud speaker ! I lost my shit arguing we got home I seen red n went for him I then got the hammer & smashed his car windows . I know that was wrong but being goaded daily put down n body shamed made me hate him then I just seen red

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