Would you rather?

A) child sleeps all night long, no wake ups/nothing, but is a huge menace all day

B) child has multiple wakes up during the night/menace at night, but is a saint during the day

my husband asked me this today and I was stumped..

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I say A because it’s not guaranteed I’ll get sleep during the day even if they’re a saint.

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I chose B because I'd rather have a kid that let me rest after a long night, but it's my experience these things aren't usually opposite each other... Kids who don't sleep well seem to be menaces in general. 😂

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A . Cause once I get full 8 hours of sleep I’ll have the energy to be a menace with them

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B, because I have already lived it and when they are saints during the day I can rest for a bit

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Only saying A cuz that’s how my life is😂

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What do you do when you have one of both 🙈🙈🙈🙈

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We have an A 🤣 by the end of the day everyone is exhausted and totally knocked out

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Does B include a solid nap?

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~ choosing A because i have menaces during both the night & day lol so i’ll have the sleep please!

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I chose B, but now thinking about it. I need my night time me time to decompress more than day peace, I choose A. Doggone it, when are you all going to allow us to correct our poll answers, lol.

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I’m saying A because I’ll be better able to deal with her being a menace if I’m well rested myself 😅

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I have both 😅
A toddler who sleeps 12-13 hours at night but is constant in the day and going through the tantrum phase (I can currently hear him having a tantrum downstairs with Daddy)
And a 10 month baby who is co-sleeping and wakes up 3-4 times but is such a chill baby during the day!

I chose A because with sleep i can regulate myself better 😅

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B.
I have suffered with insomnia for so long, that I wouldn't have an issue functioning with little sleep.

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Would you rather?

A) child sleeps all night long, no wake ups/nothing, but is a huge menace all day

B) child has multiple wakes up during the night/menace at night, but is a saint during the day

my husband asked me this today and I was stumped..

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