I’m really looking for advice and opinions on vaccines for my baby. I’m not against getting them but also just don’t feel like I know enough about them to make a decision just yet as I’ve had people say to me they don’t agree with them and they can cause issues etc… so I just want as much info as possible. What are everyone’s thoughts and experiences of vaccinating your child? I’m just interested to see everybody’s views (no judgement as I just want to know I’m doing the right thing) thank you x
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You can google or ask your questions on chatgpt that will give you a more factual answer than the ones you'll be getting here, but one of the most significant facts you will find online is this: "Significant Reduction in Infant Mortality: Vaccines have contributed to reducing global infant mortality by 40% over the last 50 years." This includes SIDS

Also this "Based on decades of extensive, high-quality scientific research involving millions of children across multiple countries, there is no evidence that vaccines cause autism. " the doctor who suggested there was was called Andrew Wakefield, in 1998. His research has been disproven, paper has been retracted and he has lost his medical licence

It might be worth visiting your pharmacy and asking to speak privately with the pharmacist. They'll be able to answer loads of questions, provide resources, and offer proper guidance. They don't mind helping out any worried parents ❤️

I personally cannot understand why anyone wouldn't vaccinate their child. Surely you would want to do everything you can to protect your child. Anyway that is my opinion. Read studies online, do your own research speak to health professionals and do what is best for you and your child.

I work in pediatric vaccinations and I am so sad at the state of misinformation, fear mongering created by people who are against vaccines.
You see babies at deaths door with things like RSV which are easily preventable and manageable.
I advocate reading up as much as you can from official websites not social media or blogs and if you also had vaccines when you were younger ask yourself what harm they have caused you Vs the potential benefits you have gained.

https://www.nhs.uk/vaccinations/why-vaccination-is-important-and-the-safest-way-to-protect-yourself/
Bear in mind child mortality has drastically declined in the last 70 or so years, and it’s not by chance. I would recommend looking on the WHO / NHS website for more information.
Because of people having damaging opinions on vaccinations and spreading this rhetoric online, we now see rising numbers of cases of diseases like eg measles.

My daughter just had her 8 week vaccinations, it was a difficult day with her crying and being in pain but ultimately so so important!! Diseases will start to become a big problem again if people don’t vaccinate their children. I’d rather my baby be in a bit of pain for 24 hours than be seriously ill with a deadly but preventable disease

I completely empathise with this! I looked into it and now I’m at the point where I don’t want them to be vaccinated but I also want them to be vaccinated too!! I can see the risks on both sides now and it’s been a horrible time trying to decide. It’s such a huge decision and I just wish the conversation was a bit more well-rounded.

Please remember that vaccinating your children isn’t just about protecting them, it’s about protecting the community as well. It helps protect babies who are too young to have been vaccinated yet, and children who are not able to be vaccinated for medical reasons.
I feel like the worlds worst parent.
My baby is 18 weeks old and has become the lightest sleeper. I have tried sleep training, co-sleeping, feeding to sleep, rocking and patting to sleep but he just wakes up as soon as his head hits the crib. I make sure I he not up to long in the day and go over any wake windows and he lets me contact nap or put him in the najel sleep carrier but that doesn’t work at night. I’m not sure if I didn’t put him down enough when he was smaller and that’s had an effect with this now.
I speak to other mums who babies are the same age and they all sleep through the night.
Can any one tell me what I am doing wrong please. This will be week 4 with hardly a sleep now.
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Please spare any negativity as I feel extremely embarrassed writing this.
I have PPD. I have a 5 month old & a 2 year old. I have physical health issues.
My 5 month old hates the bath, and has only had 4 since she was born. I wash her daily with mustela water but I feel like I'm neglecting her for not giving her more baths.
Logistically I am struggling, as well as physically. I cannot even get in the bath myself due to mobility.
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Hi mums, I’m really looking for some advice because I’m feeling angry and hurt.
I’m a first-time mum and my son is still very young. Over the past few months, things with my mother-in-law have become increasingly difficult. There have been hurtful comments towards me, criticism about my parenting, and issues with boundaries.
There was also an incident where my son was unwell and struggling with feeding. Instead of asking how he was or showing concern, we felt accused of lying or exaggerating the situation and keeping her away from him. That really hurt, especially as we were already worried and trying to do what was best for our baby.
My partner and I decided to take some space because the situation was affecting us as a family. I recently reached out to her myself because I genuinely wanted to try and talk things through calmly. I suggested meeting for a walk and having an honest conversation, but she ignored my message and instead called my partner while he was at work.
When he didn’t answer, she told him that if he didn’t answer, “this whole situation was going to get a whole lot worse” and that she had spoken to people who said she had a “high chance of winning.”
The thing that has really upset me is that she has previously told both me and my partner that she would take our son away from us. Hearing words like “winning” and “fighting for my grandson” has made me feel like my child is being used as a threat or a way to pressure us.
I completely understand that grandparents love their grandchildren and want to be involved, but I don’t believe a child should ever be used as leverage in adult disagreements. My partner and I just want a respectful relationship where boundaries are listened to.
At this point, I honestly feel like I don’t even want a relationship with her anymore. I feel like too much has been said and done, and I’m struggling to see how we move forward after feeling like my child has been used against us. Part of me feels like no contact is the only way I can protect my peace and focus on my little family.
Has anyone experienced anything similar with a family member? How did you handle it when someone brought your child into conflict or threatened to take them away? I’m just looking for advice and support because this has been really stressful.❤️

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Hi mamas! How are we doing the nighttime feeds and diaper changes with a 3 year old that sleeps in the same room? My newborn makes a lot of noise during the diaper change and will always wake rhe 3 year old...I'm super exhausted now and its only been 5 weeks! Any tips and tricks??

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What's everyone using for baby to sit in the bath? We had the angel bath seat but now her legs can reach the bottom of the bath she keeps jumping off it

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So my baby's turning 4 months next week. He usually slept fine, would wake up for 2/3 feedings per night and since 2 days he has been waking up every hour,
I'm not sure what to do. Nothing has changed in his bed time routine. I give him a bath, i give him the bottle and he goes to sleep after a while.
He doesn't fully wake up, he stirs, then tries to roll or get up and cries if i take too long to pick him up.
What should i do?

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