Just venting about an ignorant irresponsible husband!

Sounds like a knob , sorry to say who is he ! Who makes comments like that . Tell him to get off his arse and help and support x

Bullshit it's all men. Real men are adults who cook and clean up after themselves as other adults do, and real men actually want to have a relationship with their children. Lazy slob. You don't get points for saying you were just about to do it.

I’ve met incompetent men in my lifetime but this guy sounds like he’s more trouble than it’s worth.
No not all men are like him. The way I would have lost my mind on this man, I could not even begin to describe.
How did he trick you into marriage?
My man would never have the audacity to blow me off or speak to me that way even if it’s a “bad dad joke”
I don’t see anything improving unless a miracle happens. They do sometimes.
Anything is going to impact your baby. I would start with therapy and maybe even couples therapy. I know when you love someone you try all your options before walking away. If he’s not open to trying all the options then you should walk away. You can’t grow as a family with someone who can’t grow up and be a man.

I am really sorry that you ended up with a boy like that. He is not a grown mature man, he really is a little immature boy. The amount of bullshit that comes out of his mouth is insane.
Definitely not all men are like him - he uses it as a lame excuse to be/ stay lazy and not having to change himself.
I would think twice if you really want to raise a family and stay with him for the rest of your life... You'll just getting more frustrated and depressed.
My fiancé for example, he was raised by a single mother and as much as she is a drama queen and I have my issues with her but she did definitely right in how she raised her 2 sons.
My partner is very clean and organised, always cleans after himself and takes care of the household chores (the years we are together now I only had to clean the house 5 times), we share the laundry, I do the cooking and groceries. When I am not feeling well, he also takes over that part. he is doing more than his "fair share" taking care of our LO.

Both of us are working full time nonetheless he pulls his weight in every matter around our life together.
Our LO is 13 months old, am 20 weeks pregnant again and I know I have 110% of his support.
When we had issues with finding a nanny, it was him suggesting that he stays at home to take care of our LO and he took off work unpaid. It was a no brainer for him cause his family comes first.

You deserve so much better. An equal partner, shares responsibilities, helps and supports you when you need it; he also provides. If a man can't do that, he is useless and every woman does best in getting rid of him. A relationship/ marriage is not a one way route or a cup that you just pour out of. Cause when the cup is empty, the relationship is over - he also has the duty to refill that cup and he does that by being a responsible, helpful, supportive partner that you can rely on.

Nope. Not all men are like this. My husband is very involved and helpful. Your husband is using what's called weaponized incompetence. Unless he's open to couples therapy and/or at least sitting down and having a mature conversation about this, I'd seriously consider divorce. I'm sorry hun. 😞

Definitely not all men. I am so sorry you found someone like that. My husband works nights and he still comes home and not only prioritizes baby but me too. He always takes baby and makes sure I eat first. Im definitely raising my son to be a real man because these poor excuses of men are everywhere apparently

No defo not all men, my husband isn’t but i chose not to marry a bum 🫡

The best advice I can give is leave. It's worse for your baby and you to stay in this relationship. Babies see how he treats you and will learn to act that way. Give him an ultimatum if you have to.

My husband is not like that.
So your husband is wrong.