Finna be a mom of 2
I still can’t believe that I finna have 2 babies under 2 and having so much negativity around me is making me stressed and depressed and my anxiety is up so bad
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Just ignore the negative people. I had 2 under 2, and 3 under 3. It’s not nearly as bad as people make it out to be. Go into it with a good attitude and you’ll do just fine 👍🏻 Also adjust your standards & expectations to be a little lower for the first few months. That’s what stresses moms out the most I find - trying to do too much that first little while. You’ll be alright 💕
Don't worry time flies and you are going to be awesome ❤️
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