I have one of each and I’m pregnant with my 3rd and it’s a boy. I’m so desperately sad that I won’t have a girl again. I’m trying to come to terms with it and I’m just having flashbacks of my time with my daughter and it makes me sad that I won’t ever get to experience that again. My son has been a rough baby compared to my daughter. I’m just worried I’m gonna have a rough time with the new baby like I did with my son. This is my LAST baby and I’m angry and sad that this is it. How do I accept this? I’m hate change and always thought I would have two girls.
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Gender disappointment is real and normal. I know a lot of women who have experienced it heavily. As their babies grew and eventually when they gave birth, they just forgot all about it. Every baby and pregnancy is different!

I would absolutely not say you're an asshole for this. Your feelings are 100% valid, and they're going to be heightened right now due to your pregnancy. Remind yourself every baby is different and has a different temperament.