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I decided to give my fiancé the baby and finally take a nap being that I was on go for almost 24hrs straight! I’ve told him a NUMEROUS amount of times that he has to turn the a/c when he puts her in her bassinet bc the air goes directly over here

I just woke up to my baby crying and literally shivering to the point her lips were starting to turn purple. And he’s SLEEP!! 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

I want to punch him awake so bad. How do I bring it up to him without crashing out??

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Put that AC directly over his private parts on full for as long as he can take it
Hopefully he won’t do it again!

I’d turn off the a/c and have a fan on instead , also how are you dressing the baby ? Are you able to take him to another room if he’s too cold

A little crash out may be in order

If you don’t beat that motherfuckers ass

To be clear I’m totally on your side and I’d be PISSED, however I would recommend keeping the ac and dressing her more “appropriately” for the temperature because it does help prevent overheating and air circulation helps lowering the risks of sids

Either way he did not know those things and should have respected what you said. Only you know what’s best for your baby

Please don’t take this as judgment, just something I read based on my own research cause my lo would get sweaty

Ice water challenge comes to mind. I would be pissed

Do an instructional video of you telling him calmly again and when he asks why you can say that as he is a parent too if something goes wrong you have proof he was educated 😂 but seriously tell him to grow up and step up, sounds like he is lazy and it’s not acceptable behaviour for a father. It’s not all on one parent, should be a team effort!

Awww is there no where else to keep baby. So sad.

Wait for him to wake up and talk to him about it

Also move the bassinet

No okay at all. However, is there a better place for the bassinet and can you add a sleep sack and warmer pajamas?

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