Husband starting shaming me for breastfeeding

My little boy loves the boob and is on and off all day atm. He’s teething and going through separation anxiety. My husband has started shaming me for giving him the boob when he asks for it and blaming me when he cries.

Breastfeeding is more than just milk and from 1 its mostly about comfort.

Is anyone elses recently 1 year the same? I don’t think im doing anything wrong. He starts nursery soon which i’m hoping will help reduce his needs during the day.

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As our babies are starting to sleep longer stretches, I wanted to ask for those breastfeeding how they deal with their milk. I find even if I am still feeding 2 or even 3 times in the night, the time in between is still longer than in the day so I often find I wake up having leaked through my breast pad, bra and top.

The most obvious thing to me would be to pump, but the nice thing about baby sleeping longer is I thought I would be able to sleep longer too! And I know if I get up to pump (having to sit upright, noise of the pump, sorting the milk after etc) that I would have trouble getting back to sleep. Not to mention it would probably wake my husband up too. Curious how others have dealt with this. Are we just accepting being leaky everywhere? 😂

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It’s 5am, my baby is just bringing back up all the milk I’m feeding him 😖 I’m soaked, he’s soaked, the bed is soaked. He’s wide awake just staring at me like ‘what now?’ Husband snoring peacefully next to us, of course.
I feel like I need my mum to come clean us both up and tuck us in.