Need to vent

I’m sick to death of having to remind my partner to do things for me e.g wash the bottles/sterilise whilst I’m asleep as he works nights so when he gets in that’s one of his jobs but funnily enough I’ll wake the next morning to them still in the washing up bowl and all I’ll get when he wakes up is ‘I’m so sorry I forgot’
I just feel sometimes I’m overreacting over the smallest things but I do literally everything for him as well as look after our boy on my own 90% of the time.
He gets frustrated when he can’t get the baby to sleep and asks me to take over which I will always do but I don’t get that option I just have to deal with it?

Also I didn’t get anything for my first Mother’s Day lol and feel like I let him off easily but when these little things happen it just makes me think does he actually care about me?

Am I just being a hormonal pyscho?

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I've got a man toddler too, I've resorted to notes on the walls that he can't miss. It's so draining having to repeat myself. Not a hormonal pyscho I just think we ask for the bare minimum? Xx

No! not at all, I have never related to something so much. My partner was AMAZING for the first 2 or so weeks as I had an emergency c section so he did absolutely everything for me and baby, but he's been back at work 5 nearly 6 weeks now and I've had to have the same conversation a couple of times. I feel awful because he's working but being at home with our baby all day everyday isn't all sunshine and rainbows, there's no 'sleep when baby sleeps' when baby sleeps it's bottles and washing and a house clean and trying to find time to eat which most days I don't and I've had to explain that multiple times! But i told him last time that him being at home with us is no help to me so he might as well move back to his mums, I feel like I kind of gave him an ultimatum but since then he's been a different person! It's frustrating it had to come to that and having to ask your partner for 'help' when it's OUR child but I feel like sometimes men just need things repeating for them to get it😩🫠xx

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