Libido since birth

Anyone else suddenly have a low libido!? I had a really high appetite for sex before having a baby, even during pregnancy. And suddenly recently I really cannot be bothered. I feel distracted, not in the mood, tired, unsexy, lazy to have sex. And it’s really strange to me as I’ve always been the one initiating and really high sex drive! :(

4 months PP, exclusively breast feeding.

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Exactly the Same , and my partner hasn’t brought it up, not sure whether to be concerned about that or grateful

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Yep, I always had the higher sex drive before pregnancy but then it completely disappeared during pregnancy as I was really poorly and as soon as I had given birth it returned I was ready to go a couple days after birth but my partner wanted to wait a bit so we made it to 5 weeks PP🤣 but I’d say within the last almost 2 months (girlie almost 4 month old) it’s just disappeared again, like Samantha’s comment above too my partner doesn’t make any moves or anything either. The couple times I’ve mentioned it, it doesn’t end up happening then both me and baby are asleep by the time he comes up to bed!

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I am the same, it’s because your hormones are still not back to normal. We will get back there

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Same here. Exclusively BF and we also have a 3 year old, I am exhausted. And my husband has mentioned it a few times 🙄 explained it's normal and respect the postpartum but I still don't think he gets it

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