Cheating man

Girl, I would leave. You are not “fat” you’re literally growing a whole human. And after you have the baby, the weight doesn’t just disappear overnight, so if he’s already acting like this, it’s likely not going to change.

I know this might be hard to hear, but a man who is willing to cheat on you while you’re pregnant with his child is not treating you with love or respect. That’s honestly so foul. And beyond that, it’s not worth putting yourself or your baby at risk, especially if he’s being involved with multiple people while traveling.

Leaving is hard at first, I won’t lie. But it does get better, and you deserve so much more than that.

Darling, you might love him, but he doesn’t love you. I know that might be hard to hear, but no decent man who loves his partner cheats on them period, let alone when their woman is carrying their child. Please know that you deserve so much better than this. He is showing you who he is. Would you want this for your own child? It’s hard, but we have to model to our children what is acceptable. He will not change. Find the strength within you to leave, for your sake and your precious child x

If he loved you he wouldn’t be treating you this way. It’s disgusting. You deserve better, you are worth more, and you can absolutely find yourself a better man. Obviously logically it may not be a good time to leave but make your plans and get yourself set up for when you can. Please don’t settle for such a low bar. If he sees you accept this now he’s will never stop treating you badly because he knows you’ll accept it.

Uh. Well. I mean, are you okay with an open relationship, because that’s what you’re in right now, more or less. If you’re going to pretend to be okay with, at least set boundaries that make you feel more in control. He can’t contact them around you, or can’t tell them I love you or call them your pet name, anything that makes you feel the upper hand.

Obviously he’s a POS and that’s disgusting of him to say and defend with like what he thinks is reasoning? wtf? You’re growing his child, that’s not FAT that’s LIFE BEING MADE. If he actually loved and respected you, this wouldn’t be happening. He will NOT change, even more so because he thinks he’s in the right some how

What do you love about him??

LEAVE HIM. He is sleeping with other woman and treating you poorly. He does not love or respect you and that is shown in his words and actions

Leave him

He’s willingly telling you that he is sleeping with other women and going to continue to sleep with other women, and you’re thinking about staying with this man? Please do yourself a favor and leave this man. He is no good for you, he has no good intentions for you, nor will he ever have good intentions for you. He’s blatantly letting you know that he’s disrespecting you, he’s going to keep disrespecting you and he’s OK with that.

Hes doing this because he knows you will stay no matter what if you tell him how you feel and say if this dont stop im going to put me and my daughters feelings first and he will ether start acting like a adult and man up and be there or he wont and that will show if he really cares

Wow... You deserve so much better. I understand the attachment and feeling like you can't live without him but I promise that feeling goes away eventually. Focus on you girl. If he really loved you he wouldn't put you through that.. especially while pregnant.