Need encouraging words or advice

Was with my boyfriend for a year and a couple months. We kind of broke up as he said in anger that he doesn't wanna talk to me again. I told him I'll leave him to it then. He isn't over his ex (the heartbreak and the time spent) it's been so long since we've been together now that I just don't get why he's still hurt. And I know he loves her and he's not dishonest about that. Guess I just thought he would move on from it and love me fully but I don't know if he can 😕

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Am i overthinking?

So today I was outside with my toddler playing and walking around on our block close to our yard (she was trying to catch a bird lol) anyway, the road we live in gives a good amount of traffic
Then a car slowed down (I didn’t think too much of it because I come to realize ppl slow down when kids are out) next thing you know I hear “hey neighbor”, old man rolling down his window stopped his car to say it, I instantly thought wtf and I never saw him around before, I watched him a bit and he was driving slow as he was driving away, creeped me the fuck out, called my husband right away which he was only 5 minutes away
It really freaked me out, I always felt safe in my neighborhood (though only been here for 2 years) I hate telling my husband stuff like this because he be reaching but I had to and also i can’t sleep now yall, my husband put chairs on all the doors
I work out early morning in our basement and told him to do the same down in the cellar door to outside, even told him to block the windows. I felt and still feel so uneasy about it and now I don’t feel comfortable taking my children out when my husband isn’t home

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Do you ever wonder if you unintentionally traumatize your kid(s)?

I worry all the time when they get older what they will say I traumatized them about…

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very excited!!

my baby just ate puree and showed alot of interest in it!! it was avacado which i never expected her to like so much

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Tired and exhausted

I’m 25
He’s 21

So my SO comes home everyday and ASKS what needs to be done around the house or asks if I need help with our one year old. Of course I’m going to tell him no but then he gets mad at me bc nothing gets done when he thinks it should be. He has walked passed an overloaded hamper of CLEAN clothes since last night and still wasn’t to ask what needs to be done. There’s dishes that need to be put up and washed even tho I’ve been doing it all week along with cooking dinner. I’m a SAHM and he pushes me to get a job but my son is still on the boob and I don’t respond as well as I used to with my momcozy pumps. He does work buy half the days after work he goes to the gym. I dont NEED help and I dont mind if he asks but he’s grown and should be able to see if things need done no? I make his lunch I make his plate for dinner I wash his clothes I clean as much as I can with a 1 year old running around (yes RUNNING) but nothing I do seems to accommodate or please him. Atleast that’s how I feel about it.

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Toddler activities help!

I’m having difficulty entertaining my 2.5 year old since my 2 month old arrived. Any advice or suggestions on activities I can do at home? Would love the help, thank you in advance!!

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Ok for baby??

Can baby have these?? Tesco substituted us like usual. He’s nearly 7 months - would it be ok well done and I make sure they aren’t fatty??

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