Stopping breastfeeding at night?

For EBF babies, how on earth do we start settling them without the boob? My boy is 9 months and wont settle from night wakes unless he has the boob 😫

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My son “wiggles his bum” not sure how to approach it

He is 3. He lays face down and goes left right - wiggles his privates on his bed/sofa etc. Calls it “wiggling his bum” should I be concerned or is it a good idea to set boundaries? Not sure how to approach this. Advice appreciated

Cosleeping

So my 5 month old sleeps in a portable bassinet between myself and my husband every night. He's so good, he sleeps the whole night with both of us each holding one of his hands. My husband wants him to start sleeping in his crib but I honestly love him being with me. I sleep so much better knowing he's right there with me. The times I have tried to put him in his crib he screams and I feel so awful. I also sit there watching the monitor and don't ever get any sleep. I feel like I am being selfish because I want him to stay in the bed with me. I get that in the long run it's better for him to learn to sleep in his crib in his own room but I am just so not ready and he doesn't seem to be either. Is there ever really a good time to make the change? Anyone else dealing with this?

Self settling

At what age has everyone been teaching self settling, my LO is 3 months going on 4, love to hear everyone’s thoughts and what methods you have used

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Stylish nappy bags?

Seems silly but I really hate the look of all the nappy backpacks I've seen. Has anyone come across any stylish bags that do well as a nappy bag? Seems small and silly but I'm really worried about losing my sense of self when baby arrives and this seems like a small, easy way to retain some of my style and character

My baby barely sleeps + lots of gas & reflux - help! Any advice??

Hi, my baby’s 6 weeks old and in the past week at least he has barely been sleeping during the day, and not much at night either. Like maybe he has one nap that’s longer than 1 hour during the whole day and then mostly falls asleep while breastfeeding, and even if I wait for him to be in deep sleep once I move him to the bed/crib he doesn’t sleep in it more than 50 minutes, usually waking up very shortly after, like 5 or 10 minutes. At night he might sleep one or 2 longer stretches, if I’m lucky more than 2 hours, or about 1 hour and 30 minutes.
He struggles a lot with gas and that’s one common reason I believe he wakes up so much and I have been doing the exercises with his legs to help him when I see him struggling. He’s also got lots of reflux, sometimes it shoots out of his mouth and I get scared that maybe it’s not normal but at the same time he is gaining weight and does a good number of diapers per day.

I’m just really struggling tho as I barely get any sleep and can do any basic task, as he also doesn’t really like spending time with his dad and cries shortly after being with him.
I don’t know how long I can survive if things don’t get better.. I’ve been crying today as I also don’t have any family around us that can help and I wish I did, cause it’s really hard..

Husband getting up

Everyday I have to wake up my husband like a little kid to either help me or take our oldest to school if I don’t he will sleep till who knows when.
He always tells me to wake him up but tbh I feel like he should just do it on his own he’s a grown man. Then I feel like I annoy him and he’s in a bad mood when I wake him up. But if I don’t he says it’s my fault being overwhelmed with the kids because I didn’t wake him up. It’s like a lose lose battle for me.
But I’m curious in how others are? Is it just my husband or are others sleeping in too? Do you have to wake them up or do they wake on their own?
Also 10m pp and haven’t slept in since we had our toddler 2 years ago so crankyAF and jealous he can sleep in and I can’t 😒