Why is it so hard to make friends now?

Is it just me or when did people stop being so friendly. It honestly used to be so easy to make some good friends. People used to call or just make last minute plans and come by and just hang out. I feel like everything needs to be so planned out for even a simple phone call. Are there any SAHM looking for some friends? I love motherhood but I honestly just miss having some girlfriends to just hang out with it can be lonely at times. Looking for some genuine friendships.

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I fear friendships are a thing in the past. But I'm hoping one day to find someone I can honeatly call a good friend.

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Looking for my bestie! I don’t care if your million miles away or if you are where I’m from in Tennessee! Message me! I’m 31 with 3 boys. All I want is someone to care just as much as I do ā¤ļø

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Am I just a horrible person?

I need help. I feel like I am a horrible person. I am in a relationship for 3 years and we have a 5 month old baby. Our relationship always has been very friendly almost platonic. I really care about him and he's a good man and a good father. But our sex life always was non existent. We had sex maybe 4 times in the 3 years and 1 of them I ended up pregnant. Ever since having a baby we are having more arguments and I feel like I'm falling out of love. I recently met a man and I feel extremely attracted to him and I know he wants me. Now I am not a cheater so I would never do anything with this man while in a relationship. However I really want to. Now I don't want to ruin my child's life by splitting up with my partner. Also there is the thing of comfort in this relationship. Also what if it wouldn't work out with the other man? I feel horrible because I feel like it's unfair to my partner but I just don't know what to do. Any advice would be appreciated.

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Bi curious

I realized lately I’ve been attracted to females to the point where I only watch that type of content! Trying to figure if it’s a phase. I am married but haven’t mentioned to partner

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Prenatal Vitamins

Hi everyone, I would love to know what prenatal vitamins you use and would recommend - just found out I’m pregnant so need to move from fertility to prenatal ones but am trying to work out the best one to go to

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Needing some advice/help😩

Hi I’m a 25 y/o mum of 1 I’ve been with my partner/baby dad since we were 15/16, since before I was pregnant my partner has kept on asking me if he can ā€œfinishā€ in my mouth, now there has been a couple of occasions where he has finished in my mouth after a blowjob but not told me he was going to (to clarify I have let him once and I didn’t like it) but lately he’s been asking more and more and even jokingly said ā€œwe’re not having sex again till you do itā€ but last night he messaged me and told me it doesn’t matter anymore and just to leave it I asked why he said ā€œbecause you’re never gonna do itā€ but yet I always say I don’t want to cos I don’t like it, and since last night something just feels off, but I also now feel really bad like I’m being a bitch, someone please give me some advice

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Working mamas, I need your help.

Hi there! I’m a FTM, currently 29 weeks pregnant with our sunbeam baby. Getting here has been a journey but so worth it. I currently work full time and so does my husband. I manage a local spa and am a massage therapist (not so much these days šŸ˜…) and my husband works overnight. We are having such a hard time trying to figure out what childcare will look like after. With my job requiring more in person presence and us needing to have two incomes to manage our house hold,I am feeling lost. Plus daycare is EXPENSIVE!! In a perfect world, I would love to work from home but know I can’t do that with my current job which I love and have been with since spa opened. We have a few friends and family who are near but they also all work full time. I just don’t know what the best course of action should be and don’t want to put my family in a super stressful situation once my leave is up if I have to leave my job. šŸ˜ž any advice?

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