How to not react? / โGrey rockingโ?
TO PREFACE YALL I AM WORKING INCREDIBLY HARD ON GETTING OUT OF THIS SITUATION BUT AS YOU KNOW IT TAKES TIME GETTING THINGS TOGETHER TO LEAVE WITH A BABY. NO I DO NOT HAVE ANYWHERE ELSE TO GO AND AM NOT ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR RESOURCES.
as someone thatโs passionate, LATINA, very opinionated HOW DO I STFU. In a situation right now where he is verbally and emotionally abusive. Itโs gotten worse. wasnโt always like this. โShut the fuck upโ โGet the fuck outโ โBitchโ โCuntโ. girl Iโve heard it all. some days it hits harder and I do run away and cry ..
but iโm at the point where it doesnโt even hurt me or surprise me the things that MF says. so as someone thatโs emotional, out spoken, stubborn.. how do i stop reacting!!?! grey rock i think they call it. i know i know โjust say Okโ โjust walk awayโ. sometimes after a hard day or week FUCK IT IS SOO HARD TO NOT STICK IT TO THEM YK? like fuck you. trust me iโm not one to be walked on or take it im tired of arguing though. tired of telling him who the fuck heโs talking to. anyways for my own peace of mind.. how?