Hi,
Im a first time mum to a 6 week old. I’ve seen a lot of people say their baby sleeps longer stretches than mine. Since she was born, in the evening we’ve put her down in her Moses basket in the living room until me and my partner go upstairs to bed. She’s waking up 3 times in the night. Would she be better at sleeping if I put her down in the next to me upstairs earlier in evening with baby monitor and get her in more of a routine every night?
I don’t know if I’m being stupid but I think maybe if she’s in more of a set routine sooner rather than later it would be best?
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Is your baby breast or formula fed? I personally dont have any routine. On average my boy who is combi fed will go down "for the night" anywhere between 6-8pm. And will wake anywhere between 10-12am. And then back down until 3-4 and then up at 7. It all depends on their feed and nap times during the day that creates this "routine". It'll all go to shit when they hit their first regression. I wouldnt worry about it just yet. They dont even know what day it is let alone a routine. With my first I thought I had a routine until the regression came 😂 now I just go with the flow until he shows signs that his body is starting to understand day and night x

This is completely normal and actually safer in all respects. Baby’s are supposed to wake up throughout the night. They can’t link sleep cycles at this young age.
They also don’t understand routines until at least 4 months old. Routines before then are for the adults not the baby’s.
Safe sleep guidelines say that until 6 months of age, a baby should sleep in the same room as their care givers for all sleep including naps. This reduces the risk of SIDs by helping to regulate your baby’s breathing as they mimic yours.
You’re doing a good job. Try not to compare what your baby is doing. Some baby’s sleep for longer stretches. And some don’t. It’s very baby dependent.

Totally normal. Every baby is different. My son is 12 weeks old and wakes up around 3 times during the night. He sleeps downstairs on the sofa next to me or in his next to me until I go to bed around 10pm and take him upstairs with me.
He can go anywhere from 1.5 hours to 4.5 hours during the night x

6 week old baby here, who in general does not sleep for long streches during the day i get 45mins/1hour max. She is sleeping from 9/10pm through until 6.30am. But this in my opinion is because she is sleeping less through the day and is knackard by her feed at 8/9. 😊 Like above all babies are different do whats best for you. Xx

My daughter is breastfed and wakes 2/3 times.
My first born woke every 45 min - 1.5 hours until she was 8 months old. It's just your baby.
Longer stretches will come💗

All babies are different. My eldest had a routine and everything but still woke up every 3 hours until solids were well established. You're not doing anything wrong x
Breastfed since one month old. Born (4lbs 11oz) At her two month check with my midwives they said she was doing really well with weight gain (6lbs 5oz). Now at 3 months we went to our family doctor and she is at 7lbs 6.4oz.
My doctor is concerned about weight gain but also said she’s doing great with holding her head, being attentive, etc. Dr. Said I should give formula
But what I don’t understand is my daughter always seems satisfied with feeding and doesn’t cry or fuss after. Anyone have a similar situation?
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Hi! I was j wondering when everyone is starting sleep training and how they are doing it? My 3mo wakes up once of a night at around 3/4am after being asleep since 10pm, and has been doing so for about a month now. I’m not sure wether that means she is ready or not? She can sometimes settle herself after being woken up from a nap after about 2-3 mins (I never leave her longer as I get scared/worried about if she starts crying) and she has a pretty decent routine during the day. Should I start sleep training? What methods are good and reliable ( I am NOT considering the cry-it out method so please do not suggest it) (Pic so I don’t get lost)

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I just saw a post about people being lucky their kids go to bed at 7pm, the comments were filled with people saying if they sent their kids to bed at 7…they’d be up at 3:30am / 4am / 5am…why is that??
My son goes to bed at 7pm and wakes up around 8/8:30am. I do consider myself really blessed with his sleep schedule however he doesn’t nap and he’s nearly 2 🤣 he dropped his final nap when he was around 14/15 months old 💔 if it’s later please let me know! Also what time they wake up - I’m curious 👀
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I usually bath my son every day but my friend says it’s bad for them?
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Looking for a bit of advice/reassurance from other mums who are breastfeeding.
Baby had lost almost 10% of his birth weight at his Day 5 midwife home visit. He was weighed again today at Day 7 and his total weight loss is now 11%, so I’m feeling quite disheartened.
I’m exclusively breastfeeding and he’s feeding at least every 2 hours. He seems to be latching well and we’re getting plenty of wet nappies. The midwife is coming back in 2 days to weigh him again.
I’m going to make a conscious effort to increase my food and fluid intake too.
Has anyone else had a similar experience with their baby and managed to turn the weight loss around? Would really appreciate hearing how things went for you. Thanks
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Hey everyone.
Sorry for the long read but please bare with me.
My husband and I have been together 7.5 years and married for 4 years. We have a nearly 5 year old little boy together.
Everything at the beginning of our relationship was everything I had ever wanted in a relationship. My husband was kind, caring, helpful, ambitious, strong etc. We both spoke about the want for our own family and how we would want to be as parents. Moving forward we got pregnant (planned), pregnancy wasn't easy and I was in and out of hospital a lot during 3rd trimester. My husband was perfect and excited etc throughout pregnancy until the 3rd trimester hit and then went of the rails a bit, drinking etc and not really there when needed.
I had experience with children and helped raised my neices, my husband had no experience. Neither of us had a good upbringing.
Roll on birth and my husband had a face like a slapped bum, our little boy was born absolutely perfect. I was really poorly and lost quite a lot of blood and was being sick. I had the shakes so bad I was struggling to hold my son. My husband left me before I was even moved to the ward whilst being unwell. He left me to go meet his dad at the pub to wet the babies head.
After we were discharged home my husband just took a back seat with everything. I done everything for our son all whilst recovering from a cseaction. My son was a poorly baby and I was also back and forth to Dr's and hospital with him on my own. My husband got a job where it was very long hours and having to stay away a few times a week for work. I was keeping the house, doing everything for our son and keeping everything together with no village. Roll on my son's like 3 weeks old and my husband says he feels nothing for our son. Shortly after this he has a massive breakdown. I supported him through all of this, took him to appointments whilst doing everything for my son who was still poorly.
For 1.5 years I done everything for my son and for everyone else and kept everything together.
Roll on to nearly 4 years later (sons nearly 5) and turns out my son is neurodivergent, has a eating disorder, now has a PEG fitted, has ketotic hyperglycemia, asthma and allergies. I'm dealing with this day in day out all whilst dealing with my own chronic health conditions.
My husband tries but he just shouts at our son a lot and gets frustrated. I feel like we just butt heads and I end up having to defend our child. He still trys to be sexual and kiss etc but I have no desire at all and even him just touching me just makes me want to pull away.
I feel like he hurt me more than anyone or anything possible. He ruined what was meant to the best time of our lives and ruined my whole experience entering motherhood and I just can't get past that. I've spoken to him and told him all this. He keeps saying he's sorry and he will change but it's just empty promises. He's not the man I feel in love with and he's not the father he was meant to be or that I want for our child.
Any advice please?
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