Is it right????

Hey there! I’m a sahm.. I need advice.. my husband and I gotten into a fight about “communication” since he works all the time and is on work calls all the time. Well I kinda kept my distance with everyone but fake smile for my babies for 2 days because I recently been feeling alone and I had family drama with my own, he’s been asking what’s wrong I told him that he’s always on the phone when you’re home (he works out of town a lot and home on weekends) and he said he’s not always on it and got upset got up and left the room but he came back got more into a fight..well I told him fine go leave then, ik I’m wrong to tell him to leave which he did and I’m dealing with postpartum rage/depression, but I made an appointment with a doctor to help my health journey but anyways I called him the day he left saying how sorry I am I got no calls back and his mom called me saying he needs to take a break so now when I call him he put me on silent mode, at this point idc about the fight he has 2 girls 1 is 5 and the other 8 months old, he hasn’t called me to check up on the girls nor gave me money I have $125 cash thats it, I’m home alone. My anxiety is finally calming down but dealing with a teething baby and keeping a 5 year old is hard. I called him again to tell him I am sorry and being home all the time is hard and the rage and to forgive me on my part but he’s completely silent, I also have a bubble marathon run on Saturday but Friday I have to register in.. I hope he comes home but the no talking is that strange??

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It’s so hard to chat with a mom on here when they literally disagree with everything you say in a sort of passive aggressive way.

For example, we’re just trying to get to know each other and I just mentioned that my kids go to school except for my youngest who stays home with me. And she’s like “oh well we home school I could never send my kids to school”
Which is fine I get it. I support all means of education.
But then I’m like “I like to go work out at the gym a couple evenings a week while my husband watches the kids”
And she’s like “oh I don’t like leaving my husband with more to do after he already worked all day”
And then I mention my 4 year old is watching bluey while I take a quick break. And she’s like “oh we don’t do tv in our house”.

It feels like literally anything I have to say is immediately negated and judged.

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