I’m due to have a c-section on 40w+3d. Just got my date today and am feeling quite nervous!! If I go into spontaneous labour before, I would love to try vaginal birth - but I’m 39w+2d today and the baby seems rather comfortable where she is (no sign of labour). Basically I’d like to avoid an induction if she is overdue (for fear that it may lead to an emergency c-section / other complications). Is anyone in a similar situation, if so what’s your plan - to wait for spontaneous labour (till when?), induce, or have an elective c-section? For context, I’m a 33-yo FTM without any health issues so I think I’d be a bit gutted for not having attempted vaginal birth!
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Why have you booked a c section for so close to your due date out of interest?
Most first time mums give birth closer to 41 weeks so there’s a good chance you’re selling yourself short if you’re wanting a vaginal birth. My first was born at 41+5 x

I had an induction with my first that ended up in an emergency c section, so I’ve opted against an induction this time but willing to try VBAC. I’m 40w+2d at the minute and nothings happened so far, so I booked in today for a c-section at 40w+6d.

My midwife told me I wouldnt be able to opt for an elective c section if I wait out for natural labour. I was advised, if I wait it out and it doesn't happen it will be an induction as they wouldnt recommend I go overdue as my 1st baby had shoulder dystocia and was quite big. I guess it depends on the hospital, if I was you though I would wait and see if natural labour happens x

Hey I’m in the same situation. 41+1 days and I had my second sweep and only 1cm. I’m on the list for c section was suppose to be taken in today but they had a lot of emergencies so I’m hoping tomorrow is the day.
I was admitted last night due to other issues with me and the baby. I think after 41 weeks they will talk to you about being induce anyway. Message me if you like x

I am the same! I am overdue (40 weeks and 6 days) and I had an appointment with the consultant last week and I opt in for elective c section when I will be 41 weeks and 5 days! I knew that I didn’t want induced for the same reasons with you and when she explained to me the whole process, I was convinced that I don’t want to be inducted! She said that it’s a long process and it can take up to a week! I hope he will come by then because I really want to have an unmedicated vagibal birth but it’s up to him 🤭
Originally due 13th October, my blood pressure decided it no longer wanted to play ball and forced us into an earlier induction and all different hoops to jump through, but Brodie Angus has arrived today 09/10/26 at 12.59pm, weighing 8 pounds 15 ounces ❤️ and he has stolen our hearts!

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I went to my midwife appointment this morning for a sweep.
Baby has been ready this whole pregnancy. I am 39+3.
I had a scan 8 days ago, she was growing lovely and engaged.
They couldn't do the sweep because baby has decided to completely turn and go breech right at the last minute 😞
Now I have to sit and wait all weekend until I hear from the hospital with a plan.
Stats show the most likely option is now a c section due to the timing.
I am absolutely gutted this has happened 😞

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Never had a an experience of 4D. Had a scan at 17 weeks today they gave us a sneak peek. A friend I showed it to has said it looks like the baby has a cleft lip. Is it a shadow? I’m now worried. Would this be something that shows on a 20 week scan? First baby. Unsure what to do or think. 🥺😢
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I’m 39 weeks and 5 days pregnant. I’ve had no signs at all that labour/contractions will begin soon. Does it sometimes just happen with no warning or signs? I haven’t had a ‘bloody show’ and I wouldn’t say I’m sore in the pelvic area.
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I’m currently 36 weeks pregnant and baby is breech🥲. I have a week to basically decide if I want an ECV, section or to go down the breech delivery route.
I feel so stressed as none are options that I’d actually want. Is anyone is the same position?
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do you guys see a VERY faint line or do I just have line eyes?🫣🫣
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