Have we looked at our hoohaa’s?

Hehehe idk if anyone has talked about this yet 😅 I had a vaginal delivery with a first degree labia tear. I’m 4 weeks pp and I have so many questions…

Are we shaving down there? I’ve been lightly grazing the razor down there on the side that I know was stitched. I’m afraid of cutting with the razor.

Im too afraid to even take a mirror down there to see what kind of condition she is in 😮‍💨

I have my 6 week checkup at the end of the month and they want to do my cervical screening and the thought of the speculum has me having flashbacks 😂

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3 weeks pp I got the mirror and looked down i was told i had a second degree tear and when i saw with the mirror it just looked like my vagina was slightly swollen
I say depending on your tear degree and if u feel like it still hurts then maybe look if not if u feel like its still painful on the outside i recommend dont

Little over 4 weeks pp here and I made my husband look for my stitches just tonight bc I want to shave lol. Then even though we just had our 5th son (all vaginal) and he is a farmer I was so nervous to have him look down there I was like now just remember I’m not fully healed yet and a bunch of stuff like that and he laughs and goes hunny are you trying to convince me or yourself this 🤦🏻‍♀️

Lol I'm 4 weeks pp too, and I'm soooo glad you asked this. I've been wondering the same. Curious to know what's she looks like, but too nervous to look lol. She's still a bit tender, but may look sooner than later. 👀

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