Discipline
My daughter is 18m, she’s started being naughty and I’m not sure how to go about discipline. I’m definitely going to be a soft mum because I can’t bring myself to tell her off🫣 How is everyone else doing it?
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Taking a toy away, putting him down and leaving the room. We co-sleep but have a cot set up for our baby due in September, so sometimes we place him in that cot (he can't get out because it has high sides) and leave the room for a few minutes.
She literally can’t understand naughty / discipline at this age just redirect attention if she is doing something you don’t want her doing.
We have a naughty corner, since she is only 1 still, she goes there for 1 minute. Thats if she is very persistent screaming about something that she is not allowed to have or do. I always try to redirect her attention if I can, or I ask her if she wants to go sit in the naughty corner and she will usually stop then. She is a very strong willed baby and we really struggled with her behaviour especially when she was with both me and my husband, anything we try to do with her always ends up with her screaming for no reason, she tries to play us etc. But ever since we intruduced the naughty corner and stopped giving in everytime she screamed and letting her have her own way, she has become a little less stubborn.
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