7 weeks postpartum

I can understand how that can be difficult. It is hard for my husband to help as well because I am breastfeeding and all my baby wants is her mom, but my husband tried to take her when she was asleep so I could take a nap or get the house together. If your husband isn't helping at all that is a conversation that needs to be had. If he isn't listening maybe try and get a 3rd neutral party involved. Community really helps to like family and friends. Maybe have your mom, dad, or friend help out for a few days.

I was the same way and still am sometimes. I think for me I just had to realize this is hard asf but it is my biggest blessing (being a mom) my girl is two months and her daddy helps but sometimes bc of how much more we are doing it doesn’t feel like help at all. I had mine just start doing things to take the load off me a little. Like dishes every once in a while, take trash out, 1 feeding every other night or so, helping prep bottles and food. Don’t come at him with all that rage, although I get it, bc the conversation will go nowhere. Explain you know it’s hard he’s working but you are 24/7 with the baby and feel like you just need a little more help and a break every once in a while. I always bring up the fact I want him to bond with our babygirl more whenever I talk to my husband.