Marriage tension after 2nd baby?

Honestly I think all marriages get hard after babies. It’s something no one is really prepared for and expectations are different on both ends so it’s never easy. But just stick to it for a year and eventually it will get easier, but also try to get some alone time with your husband if you can. Go on a date or go to church (they have daycare at church and men get to hear that they need to do better) or after your kids are asleep you can even read a book together and it’s better then watching tv because you can talk about the book and listen to each other.