Moving back to our own room
My 5 month old has been sleeping in her cot in the day and also at night with one of us sleeping in her bedroom with her. I’m well aware of being in the same room till she’s at least 6 months advice BUT she has started to roll and I have read that reduces the risk of SIDS quite a lot… we also have the owlet sock and camera. Just wondering when and if you let baby sleep on their own?
My and my partners relationship seems to be getting a little rocky as we hardly see eachother or spend time with one another as he comes home from work, baby goes to bed then we go our separate ways at night. 🤦🏻♀️
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Personally I wouldn't feel comfortable until 6 months for the full night. But we put my daughter down for a couple of hours with the monitor on before we go to bed. Is that an option to have some quality time? Remember it's all a phase and probably look back as the quickest 6 months of your life soon enough x
I’d say do what you feel comfortable with, I put my little girl in her own room from 4 months as we kept waking her up moving about, I also found having an owlet a great peace of mind 🙂
Both of mine have been in their own rooms since about 4.5 months. My son kept getting woken up by my partner when he would get up for work at 3am. We moved my daughter a few nights ago because I just needed my own space back. She has the owlet sock and Nanit camera because I’m paranoid. She also still wakes up for a few feeds so that makes me feel better. Honestly just whenever feels right for you
My baby is in her own room at night for the past 3 nights. I have the monitor on my bedside table with sound on so I can see her and hear her
So far she sleeps a lot better and me too !
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