Moms and moms to be, when did you share or plan to share your news at work

I have a remote role and I have no obligation to travel to the office. I am considering telling my manager at 16 weeks. Would love to know everyone else’s thoughts/ experiences.

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Break up!!!

Hi, i thought i would never write this. But i am. I have nobody and i need some advice.

I am in the UK because my boyfriend lives here. We are together for many years. We have a 6 month old baby. I will not go into detail but i have to leave him.

I have a pre settled status and did apply for a settles one which im awaiting results for.

I am making my baby a british passport tomorrow online.

If we break up, i am so scared that he will try to take my baby. Please can someone tell me what will happen?

I really appreciate any advice.

Also, he is refusing to leave the house, we rent privately and both our names are on the contract.

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Me and my son looking for some new friends

Today is my son second birthday and I hate seeing him with no friends or family near us

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Vinted

Hi I've finally discovered vinted and I'm a bit obsessed! But can someone just clarify for me

What does it mean if loads of people have favourited an item but nobody has bought it??

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Wish I had my life back 😕

I love my baby don’t get me wrong but I really miss my old life. Now I didn’t get out much but now I wish I did. I wish I accomplished stuff and went travelling! I wish I went out with my friends more and damnit I miss my old body ☹️ this is just to vent but please can somebody tell me it gets better. I feel like my life has become so dull. I love my baby so much, truly, but I feel so bored and as if my life is on repeat. I see things like people going to festivals and stuff and I am so envious! 😞 even having a day to yourself and being able to solo travel. I kick myself like, why didn’t I do that!
How do you tackle this? People say, life doesn’t change, you just involve your kids in it but I don’t feel that and/or struggle comprehending it. Anyone else?

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Going back part time at work

I went back to work when my little girl was 9 months old she’s currently 11 months I went back part time at first which was lovely and then after 6 weeks I went back full time which I regret as iv missed a lot of my little girls goals and it’s taken a massive toll on my mental health which I’m trying to fix so I’m a better person/mumma

What did you all do when you went back to work ?