My Husband is Leaving Me

I’ve been with my husband for three years and we been through hell and back together…We have been homeless together, living in other people houses, starving together and we both got back up together…He has put me through a lot emotionally and mentally and I still stayed even when he has done things that were deal breakers…And now he wants to leave me he said he don’t feel the same about me anymore and that he’s burned out from me being stuck in the past from the things he did that hurt me and that he’s tired of the arguing…I’m devastated I’m so heartbroken 💔 he put me through so much shit and I stayed only to end up being left at the end…I’m thinking about how am I going to get over this and how this divorce process going to go…I’m in shock and I don’t want to believe that my marriage is really over it hurts….

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That really sucks and I’m sorry you are going through it. But as adults maybe remember that people can just grow apart. And other times he could have found someone else….. But remember you’re not giving up. You’re just going to heal, and move on. The least amount of fighting will be best for the both of you. 💜💜 been there done that w/ children… Hang in there!

I‘m so sorry hun, I know what it feels like to stick it through with someone and them still not want to stay. I know it feels impossible right now, you have an achey burning pain in the pit of your stomach, but it does get better. Who knows, y’all might just need this time apart to be able to find your way back to healthier more healed versions of each other. Or God might have something better in store for you, He just needs you to let go of a relationship that’s hurting you. Either way your husband has made it clear he’s not choosing you, and you have to be the one to show up for yourself and choose you. Show yourself the self respect and not chase after him. If its meant to be God will make it happen. I let go of someone who was willing to lose me and it allowed God to bring me the most amazing man who is now my husband. There is hope ❤️ I’m rooting for you, and praying for you 🙏🏻

Im so sorry for what you are going through… ☹️

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