Ftm living alone with minimal help

Hi! I’m a ftm to an almost 3 weeks old baby girl, looking for people to talk to and connect with. Been feeling a bit overwhelmed the past couple days and been crying more I guess due to postpartum, but it’s so hard to control! I feel so alone and I think I just need to make more friends to talk with that are feeling the same way I am so I don’t feel completely isolated.

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I don't feel the same way now but I've been there and done that.. I have two six and seven and a single mom it gets better I promise. Feel free to message me anytime.

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Hey Cassandra, I am not in your area but I’m up for a long distance chat!

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Ivan sympathize with you I’ve been there myself..I have a 9 and 12 yr old..I had bad postpartum with my two..it will get easier ,just hang in there.. you would like to talk just dm me..my name is Carrie

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I’m up for a chat !! Looking at your situation, one thing I would do to make things easier a bit is keep some diapers and wipes in every room, that way you’re not having to get up and change your baby.

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I’m not in your area but feel free to message me anytime!

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I’m a single mom to a six month old with zero help. Feel free to message me I know the first couple months are so rough ❤️‍🩹

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I have 4 kids been through it im here to chat to 🫶

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Hey Guys I would love to find moms around the same age as me. A lot of the people my age don't understand that I can't go out everynight and I would love if I could hang out with someone that understands me

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SERIOUSLYYYY...

I want my own bestie! 😂💕 Not a friend group, not a group effort, just ONE genuine friendship where we really click! Somebody I can call about absolutely nothing, laugh with, have girl days, random outings, deep conversations, or just sit around and do nothing with. 😂

No competition, no weird energy, no forcing conversations. Just a genuine, easygoing friendship where we both show up for each other. I love my peace, but I also want somebody to enjoy life with outside of being a wife and mama! 🥹💕

Is that too much to ask?! 😂

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I need a friend …

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