My LO is 6 weeks old. I'm trying to EBF but last couple of days she had to be fed every hour... and not sleeping very well, so I complimented with formula. I tried expressing and I got 90ml in the morning after a bottle feed for baby and during the day I don't get much when expressing... I'm getting close to giving up... I want to go in to baby having a full tummy when breast feeding and I'm struggling rn. Is anyone in similar boat? How do we make the baby have enough to last 3 hours ? How do we check if our supply is enough for that?
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The best advice i got was to "trust your body." If at this point, baby is gaining weight, you're doing something right. If you need to supplement for your sanity (because it helps with sleep it sounds like for you two), do it! But also know that these sessions will pass, your body will almost certainly adjust and produce more given the chance, and if for some reason it doesn't, you can add in formula later.
I also drank almost exclusively the "mother's milk" tea and made "lactation cookies." I don't know if they truly helped my supply, or if they just helped me feel like i was doing SOMETHING while my body and supply adjusted naturally.

6 weeks is a common point for a growth spurt where they feed more frequently to increase your supply, cry more and are generally fussier! Expressing isn’t a good indicator of supply as your baby is more efficient at getting milk than a pump. If baby has lots of wet nappies and is pooping well(yellow seedy poop) and gaining weight then your supply is fine☺️ I also have a 6 week old and she is definitely feeding more regularly in the day aswell

Your baby’s trying to increase your supply ♥️ it’s brutal but it’s nature’s way of getting the future order of milk in. Try to give him the breast first before formula when you can manage, so the body still gets the appropriate signals to produce more then top him up with formula
Try not to see the fussing as being hungry, it helped me to see the fussing as my baby getting overstimulated by the world and seeking comfort, because these growth spurts usually coincide with milestone leaps and increase awareness of their world.
My baby is 6 weeks old and get about 60mls too. He’s growing spot on normal. The thing is, babies are better than pumps at getting milk. So if your pump is getting 60mls, baby’s very likely getting more.

Thanks for the support. I think I will keep going with breastfeeding. Can't but acknowledge the fact that this is hard work. Lucky we have this community.

I had the same problem with my little boy and he is 3 months now. My boobs actually felt empty but continued to feed every hour and something must have been right as I got through it. Keep going you’re doing amazing!
Baby girl is 6 weeks. Had her first proper poo-splosion yesterday. White vest. Pink sleepsuite. Does poo just not come out?!?! It’s been washed twice and still has very prominent yellow stains😳😳 am I missing a trick?! Or is my babies poo just fairy bio proof 🤣😭. Any tips greatly welcomed!!!

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My little boy is 5 months old. From two weeks old he's been an awful sleeper, whenever we put him in his next 2 me crib he would be so active (leg slamming, arms flapping, rubbing his face) that it would wake him up after 20 minutes or so. When he was about 2 months old me and my partner started sleeping in shifts so one of us could sit up and hold him. A month ago I started co-sleeping with him to just try and get done extra sleep overnight but to be honest, it makes little difference. I'm currently up for the 3rd time in 4 hours, I'm lucky if ever get more than an hours sleep next to him. My partner has him at the start and end of the night so I get a few hours then but it's really taking its toll and we're both extremely sleep deprived. I guess I just thought by 5 months his active sleep might've calmed down but if anything it seems to getting worse the last few nights, and he will only sleep being held.
I also miss my partner massively, we've not slept in the same room for months. I feel like I've missed out on that lovely part of being a new mummy and having baby in the crib next to us, and nights have just become something to dread.
Haa anyone else been through this with their little one and when did it improve? It feels neverending at the moment and I just need to know it will improve at some point.
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I’m a FTM looking for some advice please.
I’ve just started putting my 9 week old in her sleeping bag at night the temperature when we go to bed is around 20/21 degrees I have been putting her in a 1 tog sleeping bag with her sleepsuit per the guide on the sleep bag. The temperature is dropping to about 16/17 degrees throughout the night making it colder.
Would you continue to put her in the 1 tog or would you put her in a warmer tog when she’s going to bed knowing the temperature is going to drop? I am worried about overheating her. TIA xx

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My 3year old step daughter has always called me mom since she was a year old. (Her bio mom has 40% we have 60%) in the beginning her mom was in a toxic abusive relationship, on drgs, partying every night like a teenager. There’s a lot to unpack. She eventually got very traumatized by a lot of things so I’m all she’s had to comfort her. She’s always known my name but just chose to call me mom. Recently her bio mom has been very petty towards dad. Didn’t allow him to see her on her 1 day of the week through FaceTime on his birthday, didn’t allow her to show up to her brothers 1st birthday party on her weekend, told her to bite baby brother (step child’s words not ours) told her to hit me, call me by my name or she will hurt her(again her words) she’s 3 and very easily manipulated. I became very worried when she repeatedly bit and hit her new baby brother and pushed me down the stairs after putting a wall of toys on the staircase… when she returns from her biomom she says “mommy said don’t talk to me, mommy said you look like a man, I don’t have to listen to you” that or just blankly stares at me while I’m asking how her day was.. it breaks my heart that our connection went from being SO AMAZING to so distant and cold. I haven’t told her anything I just decided to step back and leave her be because I’m so hurt and scared she’s gonna hurt baby brother or me more than what’s been done… what do I do? Talking to bio mom is out of the question she tried to fight me for asking why. She’s very immature and unreasonable.
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If your baby is finally sleeping after skipping most of the naps of the day. Would you skip over the bath or wake your baby for bath time and the rest of the night time routine?
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Help?!!!! My 18 month old from the day he was born has been absolute hell past 4pm. No matter how much sleep he has he whinges and cries at EVERY thing, all evening. My partner is really stressed out with it, as we thought by now he might have grown out of it. He’s sleeps 7:30pm- 6am, and 11:30-1:30 day nap. Eats WELL, that is what he actually mostly whinges at now… Always screaming at the kitchen cupboards. I don’t know what to do😩 is this happening to anyone else
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