Routines

My girl is 22 days old and will go to bed after her bottle around 11pm that’s her usually until 6/7am only odd days she will get up at 3am if she hasn’t drank enough during the day x

My little boy is 5 weeks tomorrow and he goes to bed around 9.30 after a bottle will wake around 12.30 for his bottle which he dad will do, will wake around 3ish for around 40 minutes, for a dream feed and a nappy change and then will sleep through till around 7 which again his dad will do before he goes to work xx

My little one go to bed after bottle around 10/10:30 and then wake up around 2 and then again at 5/6 if I’m lucky 7 then through out the day I Mke sure it every three hours xx

I can say I current have zero routine 🙈 every night is different and purely depends on the sleeps during the day. I struggle to settle him at the same time each night. I think it depends on how much sleep he has during the day but how do you keep a five week old awake 🤷‍♀️ advice on how to get a routine going would be appreciated

From my experience, plus talking to people etc, I think you either have a sleeper who will sleep longer stretches/sleep through from quite young/have the ability to self soothe or you don’t! You can make adjustments sure, but I think if you have a non sleeper, the advice that works for sleepers doesn’t always help! That’s me talking from my non sleeping eldest!