No sex drive really

I mean, there’s nothing more likely to turn you off sex than a man constantly asking for it. What’s he doing for you to get you in the mood? Is he making sure your to-do list is empty so your mind isn’t elsewhere and you can actually enjoy sex? Guys who are able to have sex with their women because they “need” it, even if they know their partner isn’t 100% into it really don’t sit well with me

Wait I’m sorry a husband telling his wife he can find someone else ? That alone would turn any woman off .. it’s not uncommon for a woman to go without sex and be okay with it for a long time because we do a lot . Cook cleaning taking care of kids , schedules ( working if you aren’t a stay at home mom which to me Is more of a job than clocking 8 hours ) .. there’s nothing wrong with you at all for feeling that way smh I hope it gets better for you

It’s definitely not fair to meet his needs and expectations when he seems to be falling short of yours. You’re not a ragdoll, you’re his partner. He is meant to meet you in the middle and be your safe space; To nurture you and your mind. Maybe he needs to spend the effort satisfying you in whatever ways sexual or nonsexual that you deem fit. Might ease the tensions between you both instead of him trying to make you feel guilty for effortlessly filling his desires when yours matter too; whatever they may be. Hope you find some peace between you both soon. His hateful and hurtful words are not appropriate for your goddess motherly self. Your needs, feelings and wants matter too. Navigating parenthood can be hard without the additional stress of a man wanting your body all the time. This guy of yours needs to treat you with more respect, period. I hope he realizes what a queen you truly are!