fourth pregnancy and it was unexpected

Hello. The problem is that before I found out I was pregnant, I was already dealing with anxiety, and now with this new pregnancy my anxiety has increased. I feel very scared all the time, and I’ve become afraid of everything. I keep thinking that I might develop preeclampsia or something could happen during the pregnancy. 😕 i have my first aptt with my obgn this wednesday. Has anyone deals with anxiety during pregnancy and what helped you

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I’m in the same boat. 4th and totally unexpected! I have a 4.5, 2.5 and 1 year old. My anxiety has skyrocketed!! I don’t know what to do or how I could possibly handle 4 under 5.5!! I recently started talking with a therapist which has helped and I try to take an outdoor walk everyday. It’s hard though. I know what you’re going through—I’m sorry ;(

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I had some bad anxiety with my first. I really just prayed daily for strength and a calm heart.

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having a doula really helped me during my first pregnancy, labor and birth 🫶🏽 i also got a pregactive online membership and found that so calming. you can find some of their videos for free on YouTube

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