Having sex without closing your eyes

Tips on how to have eye contact or just look at your man while having sex I always close my eyes bc I’m just so self conscious like what if my face looks funny, what if my eye looks lazy, mind you this is the only man I’ve had sex with that ever felt like this sometimes I will peak but like I said I’ve only done this with him

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if you think of sex as a performance like you’re on stage putting on a performance, maybe it can help 😭

I hope I don’t stress you out even more but if you really think about how you look when your eyes are closed and then just doing a little peak you would probably just open them lol unless there’s a mirror you won’t see what your face looks and maybe you should you could be a lot sexier than you think and clearly he thinks so! There’s nothing wrong with closed eyes but honestly you’re already doing the do so stare into his eyes then close them slowly and let out a good moan! Enjoy yourself and stop overthinking it! Whether it’s a lazy eye or eyes rolling to the back of your head if the sex is so good your eyes are doing things embrace it!

Following along for tips for myself aswell

Girl you at that moment gotta own the room, kiss on his neck, stare into his eyes for a few, put your hands behind his head and your chest towards his face and just own the moment

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Do you feel like women on here are expecting you to act like their boyfriend?

I’ve noticed that when it comes to attempting to make friendships here a lot of women expect you to be the one to message first, they expect you to initiate all conversations or keep them interesting and you have to make plans. It’s not a two way street and I find it beyond strange.

Have you had that experience?

Waves? Connections?

Im just curious if any one pays for ways and gets better connections? I see so many people saying they want a friend u would think there would be some pretty cool connections? Any one paying and have good connections? Any one not paying and made good friends? How did you navigate and connect with others!

MADE GOOD CONNeCTIONS
Meaning u interact frequently. Get to vent or get advice. Feel like you have a friend.

PARTIALLY
Interact ever so often. Cordial. Feel like you could potentially be friends.

MET IN PERSON
Have actually met up and tried to connect

No CONNECTIONS
Still looking. Maybe interacted and exchanged numbers but still no friendship.

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Raging at my partner

Ffs. So my partner who, for the last few months has not complimented me, barely touches me, never wants sex and admitted that his sex drive is non existent at the moment just made a comment that’s really hurt me and doesn’t help how I’m feeling already.

I’ve just had a bowl of soup and was still hungry so got another. He saw and was like “bloody hell, are you having more? Who ate all the pies? You’re certainly putting it away”….

I don’t think I’m overweight at all and anyway I gave birth 4 months ago and am breastfeeding so of course I’m hungry!!!
So angry and upset. I don’t get what his issue is, I just want to feel sexy again. It’s frustrating because I see men look at me when I’m out on my own or with baby and I know I’m not ugly but his lack of attention is really starting to affect me!!! We’re supposed to be engaged ffs. How can I marry someone who doesn’t make me feel attractive or wanted…